"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Got me wondering...

Zenboy93

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So it's about this chick who I just have stopped talking with her for awhile (To show her I don't really need her), and started to show her I'm a fun guy who has a life having fun with other girls (Which is true haha !). Anyway I realised sometimes she tried to draw my attention indirectly and lately after passing my year our teachers had to choose in which Sections we have to go to ( Science, Economic and Social Life or Litterature ). I wanted to go to Economic section and her friends were going to Science Section, Now the thing is she hates science so much she never thought of going in the first place althought she is good at it.

When I asked her before which section she might go to she said I want to go to Science since all my friends are there but I rather go to economic since I'm much better at it, after the results came out I realised I have failed to go to economic but made it to science, she sent me immediatly a message on my phone (which she has rarely did) and wondered why I haven't made it, I ignored to see how it goes and if she'll insist about knowing or not, then 10 minutes later she sent a message on my blackberry messenger asking me the same question but added something to it like " I really thought you wanted economics =P ^^" I then replied "What can you do it's life ".
She then bombarded me with questions since she had the choice between Science and Eco and if she to call the school to tell 'em she want science even tho they recommended economic for her.

I explained her how and at the end I tossed something a bit flirty to maybe show her I'm still interested which was " I know it's useless to go to economic now since I won't be going there anymore right ;) " She replied with a "Loool" (Yes she si shy but I don't know maybe not), I wanted to call her before that to ask her to join me for lunch or dinner, but that event just made me a bit wondering if I should wait a bit or call her now.

Just needed your feedback since I've never done this before and since usually chicks just come to me and not vice versa =P

Thanks !
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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bassmastajazzyj

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Eh seems like a pretty basic conversation, theres nothing that can really come out of that.
I'd call her, all she can say is no...
 

NorwegianDJ

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She wants you.

Now go be way more direct than: "I know it's useless to go to economic now since I won't be going there anymore right"

bass, stop being so negative. Chick wants his ****. Its all about perspective.
 

Zenboy93

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What do you mean by more direct ? (I know I'm a bit clueless )
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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