Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Zenboy93

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So it's about this chick who I just have stopped talking with her for awhile (To show her I don't really need her), and started to show her I'm a fun guy who has a life having fun with other girls (Which is true haha !). Anyway I realised sometimes she tried to draw my attention indirectly and lately after passing my year our teachers had to choose in which Sections we have to go to ( Science, Economic and Social Life or Litterature ). I wanted to go to Economic section and her friends were going to Science Section, Now the thing is she hates science so much she never thought of going in the first place althought she is good at it.

When I asked her before which section she might go to she said I want to go to Science since all my friends are there but I rather go to economic since I'm much better at it, after the results came out I realised I have failed to go to economic but made it to science, she sent me immediatly a message on my phone (which she has rarely did) and wondered why I haven't made it, I ignored to see how it goes and if she'll insist about knowing or not, then 10 minutes later she sent a message on my blackberry messenger asking me the same question but added something to it like " I really thought you wanted economics =P ^^" I then replied "What can you do it's life ".
She then bombarded me with questions since she had the choice between Science and Eco and if she to call the school to tell 'em she want science even tho they recommended economic for her.

I explained her how and at the end I tossed something a bit flirty to maybe show her I'm still interested which was " I know it's useless to go to economic now since I won't be going there anymore right ;) " She replied with a "Loool" (Yes she si shy but I don't know maybe not), I wanted to call her before that to ask her to join me for lunch or dinner, but that event just made me a bit wondering if I should wait a bit or call her now.

Just needed your feedback since I've never done this before and since usually chicks just come to me and not vice versa =P

Thanks !
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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bassmastajazzyj

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Eh seems like a pretty basic conversation, theres nothing that can really come out of that.
I'd call her, all she can say is no...
 

NorwegianDJ

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She wants you.

Now go be way more direct than: "I know it's useless to go to economic now since I won't be going there anymore right"

bass, stop being so negative. Chick wants his ****. Its all about perspective.
 

Zenboy93

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What do you mean by more direct ? (I know I'm a bit clueless )
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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