"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Got laid twice this past week

mrskinnypantz

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Got laid twice this past week ,from 2 different women
One chick I met out on the way to work
The other came straight to the crib for sex from. OLD ,she drove 45 mins to get smashed all night

the after-sex glow is real , after getting laid I starting gettin all types of positive attention from women. Young and old.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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SargeMaximus

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Got laid twice this past week ,from 2 different women
One chick I met out on the way to work
The other came straight to the crib for sex from. OLD ,she drove 45 mins to get smashed all night

the after-sex glow is real , after getting laid I starting gettin all types of positive attention from women. Young and old.
its funny, I get less attention the more I get laid. No joke. BUT having sex with more than one women in the same week or especially the same day gives me a high euphoria like no other
 

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The euphoric effect is real
I was getting IOI’s and eye contact like crazy
 

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Got laid twice this past week ,from 2 different women
One chick I met out on the way to work
The other came straight to the crib for sex from. OLD ,she drove 45 mins to get smashed all night

the after-sex glow is real , after getting laid I starting gettin all types of positive attention from women. Young and old.
I get the after sex glow alot aswell , even after just BJ's. Must be a subconscious confidence thing
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Got laid twice this past week ,from 2 different women
One chick I met out on the way to work
The other came straight to the crib for sex from. OLD ,she drove 45 mins to get smashed all night

the after-sex glow is real , after getting laid I starting gettin all types of positive attention from women. Young and old.
Very normal, so you see getting pvssy is a huge part of the game. People who are considering doing business with you are also more attracted to success in that quadrant.
 

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Why do I not get this effect? I swear the more I get the attraction and attention starts to implode. Maybe I get too smug
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Hi Skinny Pants,
Yup,It really happens,I have long pondered on why this should be,perhaps it's the relaxed vibes,a more nonchalent attitude or perhaps your body does give off more attractive pheromones,perhaps there has been research on this?
 

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Why do I not get this effect? I swear the more I get the attraction and attention starts to implode. Maybe I get too smug
Could indeed be that your baseline is already at the sweetspot and raising your state leads to overconfidence.

When I first started figuring out why I didn't get laid I got lucky, despite being pathetic I managed to get laid. She turned out to be a sh!tty person so I ghosted her shortly after, nonetheless it gave that little boost I needed. It didn't take long before I had charmed my way into the pants of another woman.

Why was it different to interact with women after getting laid? Objectively there was no difference, but I clearly noticed my mind being in a completely different state. I had an edge of desperation and insecurity before, getting laid took away that edge. I worked on reproducing that state of mind, preferably without needing to get laid first. I succeeded and I amplified it, but discovered that there is such a thing as being overconfident. Taking it too far leads into unattractive territory on the other end of the spectrum.

So yeah, if your baseline is already attractive then more is less. You'd probably do better by finding a way to bring yourself down from the high.

Getting laid worked for me because my baseline was on the low side and that boost to my energy level brought me into the sweetspot.
 

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Could indeed be that your baseline is already at the sweetspot and raising your state leads to overconfidence.

When I first started figuring out why I didn't get laid I got lucky, despite being pathetic I managed to get laid. She turned out to be a sh!tty person so I ghosted her shortly after, nonetheless it gave that little boost I needed. It didn't take long before I had charmed my way into the pants of another woman.

Why was it different to interact with women after getting laid? Objectively there was no difference, but I clearly noticed my mind being in a completely different state. I had an edge of desperation and insecurity before, getting laid took away that edge. I worked on reproducing that state of mind, preferably without needing to get laid first. I succeeded and I amplified it, but discovered that there is such a thing as being overconfident. Taking it too far leads into unattractive territory on the other end of the spectrum.

So yeah, if your baseline is already attractive then more is less. You'd probably do better by finding a way to bring yourself down from the high.

Getting laid worked for me because my baseline was on the low side and that boost to my energy level brought me into the sweetspot.
This makes sense, thank you. I notice the same thing when I am doing sales. Staying low key and humble is what works, being loud or flashy doesn’t. I keep what’s called “bottled enthusiasm”. Where people can feel your enthusiasm is just below the surface
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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This makes sense, thank you. I notice the same thing when I am doing sales. Staying low key and humble is what works, being loud or flashy doesn’t. I keep what’s called “bottled enthusiasm”. Where people can feel your enthusiasm is just below the surface
Never heard of bottled enthusiasm,interesting
Getting laid worked for me because my baseline was on the low side and that boost to my energy level brought me into the sweetspot.
Same for me, I think this is what did it
 

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Got laid twice this past week ,from 2 different women
One chick I met out on the way to work
The other came straight to the crib for sex from. OLD ,she drove 45 mins to get smashed all night

the after-sex glow is real , after getting laid I starting gettin all types of positive attention from women. Young and old.
Flow state. Most fellas are struggling so instead of enjoying time with women, there's desperation. The other point of pulling multiple girls, you compare and contrast. It debunks the golden vjj narrative many girls think they got.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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