"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Got LAID - conufsed as hell

d9930380

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I was the same. I allways brought up thinking that I didn't want to just screw around and that should be kept for someone you love however the world doesn't work that way anymore and quite frankly people just think your weird if you have that attitude especially girls.

I agree alot of girls and guys do just jump into bed because of low self asteem or because they don't want to get close to someone incase they get hurt or a host of other reasons.

The problem is there is no such thing as a good girl anymore, and if you want to have a relationship with someone you need to have had experience because she will and it will make you less of a man and just a boy in her eyes.

It's also the reason why alot of girls and probably guys are going gay, they just can't trust the opposite sex and gay love allows them to satisfy their lust and to get off without worrying that it's a real relationship.

Makes me realise that there is alot of truth in the Bible after all.

Oh and before you go all "They're born that way" crap, that's PC bull****, maybe some are, however I have yet to meet one and i did live with two "lesbians" and have plenty of "gay" friends.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Reyaj

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Yeah its funny cause I have been blowing this girl off and she only wants me more.

I realize that I am not attracted to her so even though the ***** is there, its not worth me forcing myself to have sex.

I hope I don't regret it.
 

paraguayandj

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My philosophy is if you are under 25 Fu$k as many girls as your Di ck can handle and don't worry about how good the girl is or if she is going to make a great girlfriend. But then again that's MY philosophy just like: "No to prostitution, yes to free sex"
 
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