"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

Read more...

Got LAID - conufsed as hell

d9930380

Master Don Juan
Joined
Nov 25, 2005
Messages
669
Reaction score
6
Joining them

I was the same. I allways brought up thinking that I didn't want to just screw around and that should be kept for someone you love however the world doesn't work that way anymore and quite frankly people just think your weird if you have that attitude especially girls.

I agree alot of girls and guys do just jump into bed because of low self asteem or because they don't want to get close to someone incase they get hurt or a host of other reasons.

The problem is there is no such thing as a good girl anymore, and if you want to have a relationship with someone you need to have had experience because she will and it will make you less of a man and just a boy in her eyes.

It's also the reason why alot of girls and probably guys are going gay, they just can't trust the opposite sex and gay love allows them to satisfy their lust and to get off without worrying that it's a real relationship.

Makes me realise that there is alot of truth in the Bible after all.

Oh and before you go all "They're born that way" crap, that's PC bull****, maybe some are, however I have yet to meet one and i did live with two "lesbians" and have plenty of "gay" friends.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

Read more...

Reyaj

Master Don Juan
Joined
May 19, 2002
Messages
3,221
Reaction score
378
Age
48
Location
Northern CALI USA
Yeah its funny cause I have been blowing this girl off and she only wants me more.

I realize that I am not attracted to her so even though the ***** is there, its not worth me forcing myself to have sex.

I hope I don't regret it.
 

paraguayandj

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Mar 6, 2004
Messages
232
Reaction score
0
My philosophy is if you are under 25 Fu$k as many girls as your Di ck can handle and don't worry about how good the girl is or if she is going to make a great girlfriend. But then again that's MY philosophy just like: "No to prostitution, yes to free sex"
 
Top