"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I was reading another post and SynapsyS made a very good point. A point that I had always kind of thought, but never really identified.

Quote: "This sounds terribly AFC, but highschool girls want HIGH SCHOOL style relationships, so go easy on the negging and stuff. Remember, the bible is written for adults, 20+, not 15-18 year old highschoolers."

I was wondering if we could go into a little more depth on this. I know my friends, they don't actually really go on dates, its more of group things, unless very serious. One of my friends, possibly more AFC than me tried to go out on dates with this girl he hooked up with and it just seemed to drive a wedge between them more, while they were on dates, we were at parties having fun.

I am good at neg-hitting and most girls usually find it funny, and me, "intriguing" as a result, but others, including the girl I currently want, can't seem to take it, for the life of me I can't figure out why she is so insecure with it.

I used neg-hitting as the example cause that is far and away the strongest part of my game, but I don't know how to tailor it to high schoolers and **** like that, cause in a lot of aspects in high school the bible does not work.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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neg hitting shouldnt be applied to every girl... thats a HUUUUGE NO NO ....

neg hitting is usually for the confident look at me im so hot type of woman.... be careful using neg hits cuz most girls will think of u as a dumbass if u do it wrong....

yeah the bible is mostly for the 18 - and so on type of guys , but alot of things in it still can be very helpfull even if u are in the 14 - 18 age area....

if u havent read the bible twice u wont really understand it , cuz the first time u read it u just keep thinking OMfrikkinG this makes SOOOOO much sense... and u are to suprised/happy/or whatever to really understand and read all of it as u should... the second time u read it u will REALLY read it and understand it then u take what u have understood and learned and tailor it to your life and/or situasion....
 

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Man, every girl wants their relationship to be like "The Notebook".

However, every relationship is like an episode of WWF Wrestling. People start off allied, break off, fight eachother, wear spandex and hit eachother with chairs, make up, get along, fight again.

You can debate all day about "what girls want"... why don't you think about what YOU want, and go get it.
 
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