"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I was reading another post and SynapsyS made a very good point. A point that I had always kind of thought, but never really identified.

Quote: "This sounds terribly AFC, but highschool girls want HIGH SCHOOL style relationships, so go easy on the negging and stuff. Remember, the bible is written for adults, 20+, not 15-18 year old highschoolers."

I was wondering if we could go into a little more depth on this. I know my friends, they don't actually really go on dates, its more of group things, unless very serious. One of my friends, possibly more AFC than me tried to go out on dates with this girl he hooked up with and it just seemed to drive a wedge between them more, while they were on dates, we were at parties having fun.

I am good at neg-hitting and most girls usually find it funny, and me, "intriguing" as a result, but others, including the girl I currently want, can't seem to take it, for the life of me I can't figure out why she is so insecure with it.

I used neg-hitting as the example cause that is far and away the strongest part of my game, but I don't know how to tailor it to high schoolers and **** like that, cause in a lot of aspects in high school the bible does not work.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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neg hitting shouldnt be applied to every girl... thats a HUUUUGE NO NO ....

neg hitting is usually for the confident look at me im so hot type of woman.... be careful using neg hits cuz most girls will think of u as a dumbass if u do it wrong....

yeah the bible is mostly for the 18 - and so on type of guys , but alot of things in it still can be very helpfull even if u are in the 14 - 18 age area....

if u havent read the bible twice u wont really understand it , cuz the first time u read it u just keep thinking OMfrikkinG this makes SOOOOO much sense... and u are to suprised/happy/or whatever to really understand and read all of it as u should... the second time u read it u will REALLY read it and understand it then u take what u have understood and learned and tailor it to your life and/or situasion....
 

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Man, every girl wants their relationship to be like "The Notebook".

However, every relationship is like an episode of WWF Wrestling. People start off allied, break off, fight eachother, wear spandex and hit eachother with chairs, make up, get along, fight again.

You can debate all day about "what girls want"... why don't you think about what YOU want, and go get it.
 
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