"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Got into a huge argument.....Now she seems a lot less interested

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So I stuck with my initial plan today. I only saw her twice in school today, when I normally see her 4 or 5 times. The other two or three times that I normally see her, I have to go out of my way to meet up with her, so I just said screw it. She seemed a touch upset that she didn't see me as much as she normally does. I just played it down. She seemed much closer to how she was pre-argument, so I will just finish out my plan and see how the weekend goes.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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The Great One said:
She seemed much closer to how she was pre-argument, so I will just finish out my plan and see how the weekend goes.
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Don't give in too soon. Make her come back to you.
 
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Originally Posted by Phazuka
Everyone get's jealous, it's natural in a relationship.
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Talk for yourself, bro.
Jealousy in a relationship is certainly NOT natural in a relationship. It's destructive and happens with couples of low self-esteem.

The guy should next her, he screwed up at a time were he isn't even involved with her. That shows something.

Learn and move on (at least emotionally), unless you want more of this.
 
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