"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Got into a huge argument.....Now she seems a lot less interested

The Great One

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So I stuck with my initial plan today. I only saw her twice in school today, when I normally see her 4 or 5 times. The other two or three times that I normally see her, I have to go out of my way to meet up with her, so I just said screw it. She seemed a touch upset that she didn't see me as much as she normally does. I just played it down. She seemed much closer to how she was pre-argument, so I will just finish out my plan and see how the weekend goes.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Vypros

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The Great One said:
She seemed much closer to how she was pre-argument, so I will just finish out my plan and see how the weekend goes.
Don't give in too soon. Make her come back to you.
 

Holland

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Originally Posted by Phazuka
Everyone get's jealous, it's natural in a relationship.
Talk for yourself, bro.
Jealousy in a relationship is certainly NOT natural in a relationship. It's destructive and happens with couples of low self-esteem.

The guy should next her, he screwed up at a time were he isn't even involved with her. That shows something.

Learn and move on (at least emotionally), unless you want more of this.
 
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