Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Got in a fight

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All 125 lbs of me got into a fight with a 240 lber. This fat ass ****s with everyone. So I was asking someone something, and he came from behind and slapped me hard in the back. I knew it was him, so I ignored it. He did it again, and I punched him right in the chest. ****er kept following me as I walked backwards, pushing me until the teachers got involved. Went to the office. Kid is probably toast. I got a 3.82 GPA and never been in trouble. He's a bad student and has been in fights before and he weights at least 110 lbs more than I do.

I got to go to the office tomorrow. I could be ****ed and not go to homecoming, fail my AP Bio test for the day, and get a suspension on my college application.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Interesting question. If your current "girlfriend" doesn't like that you talk to other girls, then that could be a sign of jealousy or insecurity. If you want to keep the relationship going, I recommend communicating to her that you are just a social person, and by talking to a girl you are not necessary "hitting" on her. If she still doesn't like that, then I suggest she is just trying to control you and has issues of her own, and the next step of action is up to you. Anyway, good luck with everything!
 

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Grand Wizzard Alamar said:
Why did he slap you in the back?
He's a typical ****head that does that. You know the type. It's like ****blocking. He knows he's bigger than everyone else, so he does it to everyone else.
 

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My friends would slap hello or slap me good job heh... you don't have to randomly lash on him though... be like "what? you miss a meal or something?"
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Grand Wizzard Alamar said:
My friends would slap hello or slap me good job heh... you don't have to randomly lash on him though... be like "what? you miss a meal or something?"
Were you there to witness the hard slap? :rolleyes: I didn't ask for you to judge the situation. I was hoping someone could give me advice in how not to get suspended.
 

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lmao I've only been hard slapped by a girl, because I want running too fast haha... anyway you won't get suspended if you tell your story right.. work on your story, making yourself seem like the victim and the other kid like some abusive stalker.
Gotta talk this one out.
 

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Grand Wizzard Alamar said:
lmao I've only been hard slapped by a girl, because I want running too fast haha... anyway you won't get suspended if you tell your story right.. work on your story, making yourself seem like the victim and the other kid like some abusive stalker.
Gotta talk this one out.
Thanks. I really think walking into that room, I own the kid. Just the fact that I'm skinny as **** is enough reason to take my side.
 

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lol np. try dressing up for the appointment, a tie would be a nice touch ;)
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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dude, how not to get suspended. You are pretty much going to get suspended. Try to say that he was bullying you first. Consecutively. If he has a history, its easier for self defense. Also tell them how you tried to talk your way out of it. Tell them. Or else your screwed.
 

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Thats a fight? He slapped you so you hit him once, attempted to skitter away and he pushed you? And you're going to get suspended for that? I'm still not following, how is that a fight?
 

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Your mistake was ignoring the first slap. Should have told him to piss off.
 

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fake cry but first say yoiu know what you did was wrong and you'll never do it again before you finish the sentence fake cry trust me it'll work
 

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Suck it up man, its only a suspension.

Try to meet up with him out of school, and plant a four knuckled bomb on his chin.


Don't sweat it too much, you'll look back and laugh at yourself for the suspensions... On that note, I've been suspended 3 times.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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haha I had the same thing happen freshman year. He pushed me down face first and I chased his ass through campus. he eventually tripped and I got on top of him and punched him in the face like 4 or 5 times. i got pulled off by campus security and was taken to the "office". i heard him crying on the way there. ya he had a good 100pnds on me lol. now were pretty good friends and noone will fight me coz i fought him where everyone could see. lol
 

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Grand Wizzard Alamar said:
My friends would slap hello or slap me good job heh... you don't have to randomly lash on him though... be like "what? you miss a meal or something?"
Bad advice. How do you come up with this stuff anyway? very enlightening.

Your advice is only great if you wanna get your ass beat. Obviously this guy is very insecure when he feels he has to be a prick to others, yet hitting him right where probably his weakest part is you think will have him lay off? No, you will only get him more aggressive.
 

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As far as the suspension goes all you gotta to is tell the story exactly how it went.

He was picking on you while you ignored him, then when he continued harassing you, you punched him back for self defense. SELF DEFENSE is your excuse on this one.

Depending on the person in charge very unlikely you will get a suspension for self defense.
 

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****ers like that just aren't worth it man. I know it's hard, but ignore the hell out of this guy. Apparently you guys have already been having problems, so this probably isn't the first time. In that case, you should've gone and told the office. You didn't have to hit the guy back, you could've just laughed it off and kept walking. You gave into the guy, did what he wanted you to do, react. You didn't have to punch the guy back the second time, I know it's hard man, but you can't let these ****ers get to you because if you do, it will ultimately lead to you paying the consequences. Dudes f*cking AMOG me all the time, but I don't do sh*t because I know they're not worth it and I'm better than that. People here will tell you you were right for kicking fighting him, standing up for yourself, blah blah blah, but all the consequences could've been avoided if you just didn't let him get to you and walked away. This is a typical High School fight, getting in a fight over stupid sh*t that doesn't even matter. If you're going to fight someone, atleast have a reason.

He was picking on you while you ignored him, then when he continued harassing you, you punched him back for self defense. SELF DEFENSE is your excuse on this one.
Take it from a guy who's been in this situation before, they don't give a f*ck about self defense. You might as well just run when the guy hits you, because if you hit the guy, even in self defense, you'll get the same consequences for if you were actually fighting the guy.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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