"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Got hit up for a 3 sum.

xstang77

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so I've been dealing with some **** working on getting over a break up and this morning I wake up to a message saying " send a pic my friend and I want a 3 sum" here's the deal, this girl was a slump buster for me years back after my first break up and wasn't very good looking and a single mom but gave the meanest head I've ever gotten in my life, she sends me a pic of the other girl and she's pretty cute. What would you guys do if the one chicks somewhat ugly? I'm on the fence since my recent ex was an 8.5 and concerned about banging down in looks.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Von

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Have fun

Tell me your secret...

And keep spinning plate
 

xstang77

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Hell if I know some **** just falls in your lap literally, I treated this girl like **** guess that's the secret, I beat it up, had her move her **** in, slept with my previous ex and kicked this girl to the curb the next day, my concern is going down on the looks scale.this is back when I would alternate each night who slept next to me between the 2 of them, wasn't sure half the time who I was waking up next to in the middle of the night.
 

dustmuffin

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Just do it. Im sure you will have a good time.
 

El Payaso

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If she's so ugly that she makes you go soft, I'd just dip or focus on the more attractive one.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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xstang77

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True I haven't had once since I was 18, it was great I'm stoked.
 
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