"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Got hit up for a 3 sum.

xstang77

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so I've been dealing with some **** working on getting over a break up and this morning I wake up to a message saying " send a pic my friend and I want a 3 sum" here's the deal, this girl was a slump buster for me years back after my first break up and wasn't very good looking and a single mom but gave the meanest head I've ever gotten in my life, she sends me a pic of the other girl and she's pretty cute. What would you guys do if the one chicks somewhat ugly? I'm on the fence since my recent ex was an 8.5 and concerned about banging down in looks.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Von

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Have fun

Tell me your secret...

And keep spinning plate
 

xstang77

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Hell if I know some **** just falls in your lap literally, I treated this girl like **** guess that's the secret, I beat it up, had her move her **** in, slept with my previous ex and kicked this girl to the curb the next day, my concern is going down on the looks scale.this is back when I would alternate each night who slept next to me between the 2 of them, wasn't sure half the time who I was waking up next to in the middle of the night.
 

dustmuffin

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Just do it. Im sure you will have a good time.
 

El Payaso

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If she's so ugly that she makes you go soft, I'd just dip or focus on the more attractive one.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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xstang77

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True I haven't had once since I was 18, it was great I'm stoked.
 
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