"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Got her number - now what

jdamack

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Ive recently been on a new trend of only talking to complete dimes -- pushed my old roster of girls to the side.

So was out with a buddy at upscale bar and a waitress who wasnt supposed to attend us or take our order strikes up conversation with me

Gave her some feedback then ordered a drink -- fair enough maybe thats what she wants lol, then give my attention back to my friend

After her coming back once or twice we talk some more and i really strike her interest had a cool convo played it smooth

Told her to bring me the bill she said dont worry about it (we had 6 drinks total lol and offers one more) I said sure, i then told her id like to leave with her # so told her be creative and find a way to get it to me -- she left me a note with her # touched my shoulder and whispered nice meeting you

Again the drinks were free lol so ill assume its not a tip tactic

Regardless that was the previous Friday

Wanted to reach out to her -- any tips or suggestions?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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teebear

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Cool story!

I'd keep it simple, honestly. Plan a fun date and/or meet up for drinks.

Depending how receptive she is, you might be able to coax her to your place so that you can make dinner for the two of you. You know how that will end ;)
 

FwoGiZ

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She paid your drinks? Damn we need more of those 2017s women!!
I'd plan a nice date and wouldn't mind spending a bit on it!
 
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