"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Got her number but us it ok to use it?

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She calls my agency for work. We flirt and chat. A colleague knows her and was supposed to set us up but I wAsnt that bothered until I saw her pictures on Facebook today (I checked her out while she was on the phone to me). Easily a 7. Can't understand why she 'a single .

Anyway I have her details on file . What's a good way to initiate this?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Hmm i dont see why you couldnt use it, does she call often or just that one time?
 

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So just ask her out over the phone when she calls
 

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jurry said:
So just ask her out over the phone when she calls
Ok I'll call her from the office when some work pops up and ask her out then.

Cool. That was easy.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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I asked her out but I forgot she doesn't know what I look like so she asked me to add her on Facebook. Is this good ? Should I do it?
 

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I asked her out but I forgot she doesn't know what I look like so she asked me to add her on Facebook. Is this good ? Should I do it?
Yes... do you need someone to tell you when to breathe too? This ain't blind date.
 

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Yes... do you need someone to tell you when to breathe too? This ain't blind date.
Hahaha

Thanks a$$hole.

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When should I add her on Facebook? Tonight? Tomorrow?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Haha you're wayy overthinking this.. Just add her whenever spark up some convo and ask her out, she hasnt even seen you yet no need to be this worked up about it. Relax and have fun.. Dont be over the top and needy.
 

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Ok I've added her. We shall see. Fun, isn't this?
 

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ok. she accepted my friend request on facebook. now what?
 

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Tell her that you added her.. And that you want to go out on a date. That simple.. Hope it goes well for you
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

Read more...

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YoungSir4sho said:
Tell her that you added her.. And that you want to go out on a date. That simple.. Hope it goes well for you
She know i added her because she accepted my friend request. does this mean the ball is in my court?

how do i ask her? by facebook?
 
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