"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Got her number but us it ok to use it?

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She calls my agency for work. We flirt and chat. A colleague knows her and was supposed to set us up but I wAsnt that bothered until I saw her pictures on Facebook today (I checked her out while she was on the phone to me). Easily a 7. Can't understand why she 'a single .

Anyway I have her details on file . What's a good way to initiate this?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Hmm i dont see why you couldnt use it, does she call often or just that one time?
 

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So just ask her out over the phone when she calls
 

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jurry said:
So just ask her out over the phone when she calls
Ok I'll call her from the office when some work pops up and ask her out then.

Cool. That was easy.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I asked her out but I forgot she doesn't know what I look like so she asked me to add her on Facebook. Is this good ? Should I do it?
 

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I asked her out but I forgot she doesn't know what I look like so she asked me to add her on Facebook. Is this good ? Should I do it?
Yes... do you need someone to tell you when to breathe too? This ain't blind date.
 

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Yes... do you need someone to tell you when to breathe too? This ain't blind date.
Hahaha

Thanks a$$hole.

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When should I add her on Facebook? Tonight? Tomorrow?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Haha you're wayy overthinking this.. Just add her whenever spark up some convo and ask her out, she hasnt even seen you yet no need to be this worked up about it. Relax and have fun.. Dont be over the top and needy.
 

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Ok I've added her. We shall see. Fun, isn't this?
 

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ok. she accepted my friend request on facebook. now what?
 

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Tell her that you added her.. And that you want to go out on a date. That simple.. Hope it goes well for you
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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YoungSir4sho said:
Tell her that you added her.. And that you want to go out on a date. That simple.. Hope it goes well for you
She know i added her because she accepted my friend request. does this mean the ball is in my court?

how do i ask her? by facebook?
 
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