AllDay85
Senior Don Juan
Phone conversation or text message for first contact? I finally worked up the courage for an approach. This hotty came in my work and I held eye contact. Asked her for number and got it. So far so good. Suggestions?
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Got her digits, has been 2 days. Do I call or text?
- Thread starter AllDay85
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“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
In2theGame
Master Don Juan
Doesnt matter either way IMO. Text, Phone Call if she likes you, she will respond. It's pretty straight forward. If you text her then saying something like "Hey, its *****, How are you" She'll respond with "Hey, im doing well" or something similar to that then bring up that you want to see her for a drink or wine... etc. When she's not busy. Go from there.AllDay85 said:
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
VladPatton
Master Don Juan
Chicks barely can talk on the phone these days. Text, she'll get back to you eventually. Make it quick and ask for the date.
In2theGame
Master Don Juan
Damn bro, I miss the days when if a Girl really wanted to contact you, She would have to call your home/room phone and not hide behind a text message. On the phone you can hear if she's nervous or really into it. With text nowadays, you just dont know WTF is really going on.VladPatton said:
BraddH
Master Don Juan
Holy fvck.