AllDay85
Senior Don Juan
Phone conversation or text message for first contact? I finally worked up the courage for an approach. This hotty came in my work and I held eye contact. Asked her for number and got it. So far so good. Suggestions?
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Got her digits, has been 2 days. Do I call or text?
- Thread starter AllDay85
- Start date
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
In2theGame
Master Don Juan
Doesnt matter either way IMO. Text, Phone Call if she likes you, she will respond. It's pretty straight forward. If you text her then saying something like "Hey, its *****, How are you" She'll respond with "Hey, im doing well" or something similar to that then bring up that you want to see her for a drink or wine... etc. When she's not busy. Go from there.AllDay85 said:
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
VladPatton
Master Don Juan
Chicks barely can talk on the phone these days. Text, she'll get back to you eventually. Make it quick and ask for the date.
In2theGame
Master Don Juan
Damn bro, I miss the days when if a Girl really wanted to contact you, She would have to call your home/room phone and not hide behind a text message. On the phone you can hear if she's nervous or really into it. With text nowadays, you just dont know WTF is really going on.VladPatton said:
BraddH
Master Don Juan
Holy fvck.