AllDay85
Senior Don Juan
Phone conversation or text message for first contact? I finally worked up the courage for an approach. This hotty came in my work and I held eye contact. Asked her for number and got it. So far so good. Suggestions?
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
Got her digits, has been 2 days. Do I call or text?
- Thread starter AllDay85
- Start date
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
In2theGame
Master Don Juan
Doesnt matter either way IMO. Text, Phone Call if she likes you, she will respond. It's pretty straight forward. If you text her then saying something like "Hey, its *****, How are you" She'll respond with "Hey, im doing well" or something similar to that then bring up that you want to see her for a drink or wine... etc. When she's not busy. Go from there.AllDay85 said:
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
VladPatton
Master Don Juan
Chicks barely can talk on the phone these days. Text, she'll get back to you eventually. Make it quick and ask for the date.
In2theGame
Master Don Juan
Damn bro, I miss the days when if a Girl really wanted to contact you, She would have to call your home/room phone and not hide behind a text message. On the phone you can hear if she's nervous or really into it. With text nowadays, you just dont know WTF is really going on.VladPatton said:
BraddH
Master Don Juan
Holy fvck.