Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Got her alone in the house..............

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so I get shorty alone in my uncle crib in Long Island I mean big house way different then the hood she used to so I know she feeling it. We in the guest room I go to the kitchen I come back and she is laying one the bed on her stomach so the first thing i see is her a$$ damn. We chill for a minute watch some tv I ask if she is hungry she says yea so we go to the kitchen and she makes some chicken so we eating now Im not real hungry Im waitin for her to get done so we can go back to the room and I can make my move. Her fukkin moms calls and needs her for some sh!t so Im mad but dont show it we leave and I drop her off she goes to kiss my cheek I say "whats that cheek sh!t? she looks around and gives me a kiss on the lips. I say "that was weak u gotta do better then that" she says "next time" My question is should I have made a move sooner in the crib or did I play it right?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I th'o't ya came on strong enough fo' one night. At least her mammy didn't page during sex. You know das right!
 

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Periods, commas, and punctuation are your friend.

Yo Yo i met shorty yo she was like yo i was like yo
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Yo Yo i met shorty yo she was like yo i was like yo
lmao


Markhammond, why did you offer her food? She was all sprawled out on the bed you shoulda made her eat your meat.
 

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If a chick is comfortable enough to lay on the bed then she probably ready. I fukked up by offering food taking her out the room. Any of you guys have chicks come over sprawl on the ebd and not get none lol?
 

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Originally posted by MarkHammond
If a chick is comfortable enough to lay on the bed then she probably ready. I fukked up by offering food taking her out the room. Any of you guys have chicks come over sprawl on the ebd and not get none lol?
No, it's because i KNOW how to go from ONE level to the NEXT.
 

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please school me yung hova. how i go from the level where she is laying on the bed watching tv to ****ing the broad?
 

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hmmm....

Man... don’t make a big deal of this.... She would of had to leave one way or the other... U played it kewl, don’t worry, there is nothing wrong with making food together if ur both hungry... Next time she comes though, make a move.

please school me yung hova. how i go from the level where she is laying on the bed watching TV to ****ing the broad?
I sit next to her, talk to her, hold her hand or whatever, then just kiss her and one thing should lead to the other, and before u know it the both of u should be ripping each others cloths off and banging all over the place:D ;)


Laterz....
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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yunghova35

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Re: hmmm....

Originally posted by ~ªêQµïTª$~



I sit next to her, talk to her, hold her hand or whatever, then just kiss her and one thing should lead to the other, and before u know it the both of u should be ripping each others cloths off and banging all over the place:D ;)


Laterz....
Exactly she is on the BED ya know.
 
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