"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Got ghosted by the same girl twice in 2 weeks

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Murkserious said:
I need to be loved and wanted, I just do, Sara doesn’t make me feel that which I’ve told her too. She says I need to be patient with her, help her, draw it out of her.

Why do that when I have women putting it on me left right and centre? I’m a naturally handsome charismatic man I am not waiting around for anyone. I flip flop, confused between head and heart.
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I feel you on this foreal... and then when they finally do come around, you dont even care anymore
 
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sosousage said:
how did you measue your IQ anyway lol
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Few iq tests 136 was lowest score I had and I was classed as gifted in school, it’s irrelavant anyway.

Red scorpion, love your points, will reply tomorrow when I have time.

I think Sara has stolen from me so I might be posing next about me splitting this b1tches lip open, but for now I’m going pub with guys
 
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The adventures of 136 and the crazy girls.

Where are you finding this girls op?

Good luck bro. I look forward to what happens next.
 
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Murkserious said:
Few iq tests 136 was lowest score I had and I was classed as gifted in school, it’s irrelavant anyway.

Red scorpion, love your points, will reply tomorrow when I have time.

I think Sara has stolen from me so I might be posing next about me splitting this b1tches lip open, but for now I’m going pub with guys
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this is so over lol
 

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Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

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Your roomie stole from you?
 
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Murkserious said:
Few iq tests 136 was lowest score I had and I was classed as gifted in school, it’s irrelavant anyway.

Red scorpion, love your points, will reply tomorrow when I have time.

I think Sara has stolen from me so I might be posing next about me splitting this b1tches lip open, but for now I’m going pub with guys
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Her labia?
 
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Sara seems like one of those girls that makes dating them 1/10th as fun as being their FWB

Murkserious said:
I think Sara has stolen from me so I might be posing next about me splitting this b1tches lip open, but for now I’m going pub with guys
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A drug addict stealing from a rich guy

Imagine my shock lol.
 

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Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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RedScorpion said:
Just fyi, where I got that from.


https://www.sosuave.net/forum/threads/banged-2-girls-in-her-bed-am-i-ok.253738/page-2

I would advise to think more with your head on this, rather than your heart. I don't think you guys have any level of trust with each other, which as corny as it sounds, really is the basis of building any relationship. After you've guys decided that 'We're gonna give it a go' (stating that you're essentially cutting off other girls, focusing on her (link)), something in you decided to go out and pick up two different girls to bang (and also lie to her about it, when she can 99% tell it's a bull**** lie). Probably because things weren't either what you pictured, it was going too slow for you. Maybe it was simply boring. But people aren't dumb - you bring someone in your room for the night, it's near damn 100% you're banging. Or extremely close in any regard. So obviously this is going to piss her off (and remove trust, get her to back away, etc.).

Your need to be loved and wanted is a natural feeling (being a social creature), but you need to culture that ability to get it from yourself. It's a difficult thing, but you can definitely get some fraction of it, enough to prevent this back and forth movement of 'head and heart'.

I'll opinion it like this: this relationship is ****ed. It will not work out. The drama upon when she moved in was the first sign of this. And I don't think you really want to be committed to her (which is fine). I think even if she gave you all the sex you wanted and more, you'd still be out picking up chicks for the fun of it eventually.

Keep looking, and eventually you'll find your match.
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Agreed with you one hunna

It wasn’t moving at the pace I like, I said to her last time we had sex, let’s bang sober, matter of fact you probably can’t remember the last time you had sex sober can you? She says no.

We chat Thursday night, she lays on my sofa and I massage her back. She says I need to approach her more and approach when sober, it’s all on me, I feel like I have to programme a robot to my needs, too much work.

I want her, well wanted her before “stealing-gate” but I have too many options to operate on .5 speed.

Me saying I love Sara is just me being melodramatic and expressive which I am in nature.

I met a hot chick from my school at the the pub last night she’s gorgeous and I said let’s go out. I will pick up plates by accident on auto pilot. Im a fvcking catch, think bigdave minus the autism and actually having a clue.
 
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