"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Got fired, what do I put in my apps?

andersonsmith969

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I got fired for "having an attitude." So I guess it was a legitimate reason. It was at Wendy's and I trained there for only 2 weeks.

I want to know what the best way to handle this would be. I'm not asking if I should lie or what you think might be a good idea. I am asking HOW to lie, and what statistically would give me the best chances.

Currently I am just not putting it on my apps, like I never worked there. That's what my dad suggested, he said it was never a good idea to say you were fired. Other opinions on this?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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dajinn

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He is right. If you got fired after working there for a year I would list it but just make something up if asked why you left if you have a big gap in employment or if you're generally asked something like "why did you quit XYZ"(even if you were only unemployed for a month)or "why did you leave XYZ to come to us".

Even if your prospective future employer had called them to verify employment depending on your state it is illegal for them to say anything bad about you, or if you were terminated, etc. Of course that doesn't mean that everyone will uphold honorable levels of integrity. But usually employers only call past ones to ask "I'd just like to verify that so and so worked here on these dates, etc.".

And actually if you have a past employer bad mouth you over something ridiculously minute(like a disagreement or something)and they seem unable to control their emotions(like they're getting needlessly emotional about something dumb)it can act in your favor for the new employer, who would basically see that they(whoever they would be)were unreasonable. If that makes sense. I know it's beyond the scope of the question but just thought it was worth mentioning.

Just curious, what kind of attitude did you have?
 

MaddXMan

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Never admit to being fired. These days most employers do not give references. They only verify dates of employment and job title/pay, especially big companies. There is concern about legal risk in giving a bad reference. No reason to admit when it can't be verified.

Just say there was a schedule conflict, you left for better opportunity elsewhere, you wanted to go to school....just make up something that does not put you in a bad light.

Any employment term under 90 days, just leave out of your history.
 

Leporello

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I agree that two weeks isn't worth listing.

In general, if you worked somewhere for a substantial period of time and get fired...list it, and if they ask why you left say something about 'lack of career opportunities' or whatever.

It can get tricky if they ask for references....if possible, find one of your coworkers who still likes you and use them.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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