"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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got drunk yesterday and have a workout schedule for today. what to do?

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Yesterday was crazy. I got REAL drunk (fvck you vodka) and passed out.

Today I woke up as usual when I drink too much... feeling OK, but a little dizzy.

I know, I know, bad move. I have a workout schedule for today. MAN I feel bad... I don't want to miss it. But I don't think it would be a neat move to workout with weights while still dizzy.

Man I HATE when I drink too much :(

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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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don't work out, it'll stall your progress even more than the drinking did. don't get drunk man, it undos the good work you've done.
 

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Warboss Alex said:
don't work out, it'll stall your progress even more than the drinking did. don't get drunk man, it undos the good work you've done.
Hey Warboss! Man, you have no IDEA how much I am hating myself for this now. Completely pointless. I was having AWESOME progress on my fitness schedule, including the cardio, which I used to skip so much. Then I had this awesome(...) idea: get all fvcked up... cr@p, what an idiot idea. :(

I had weight lifting today and cardio tomorrow. Should I skip both, keep eating huge, and wait for monday? Or do you have a better idea?

Drinking is definitely out of question from now on. :cry:
 

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stick to your usual eating but skip the weights. maybe some cardio in the p.m. if you feel better by then. see how you go.
 

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This is why I don't drink often, and when I do drink, I drink just as I would if it was juice or something. A few here or there, no shots, no straight stuff, no pounding. Just social drinking, and only if it tastes good.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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That's why I'm a beer drinker. They hit you slow so it's easier to stop at a buzz. That and I like the taste of beer :)
 

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Hey its ok to miss a workout once in awhile. Just don't make it a regular thing. Your body shouldn't be too off.
 
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