Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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got drunk yesterday and have a workout schedule for today. what to do?

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Yesterday was crazy. I got REAL drunk (fvck you vodka) and passed out.

Today I woke up as usual when I drink too much... feeling OK, but a little dizzy.

I know, I know, bad move. I have a workout schedule for today. MAN I feel bad... I don't want to miss it. But I don't think it would be a neat move to workout with weights while still dizzy.

Man I HATE when I drink too much :(

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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Warboss Alex

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don't work out, it'll stall your progress even more than the drinking did. don't get drunk man, it undos the good work you've done.
 

djbr

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Warboss Alex said:
don't work out, it'll stall your progress even more than the drinking did. don't get drunk man, it undos the good work you've done.
Hey Warboss! Man, you have no IDEA how much I am hating myself for this now. Completely pointless. I was having AWESOME progress on my fitness schedule, including the cardio, which I used to skip so much. Then I had this awesome(...) idea: get all fvcked up... cr@p, what an idiot idea. :(

I had weight lifting today and cardio tomorrow. Should I skip both, keep eating huge, and wait for monday? Or do you have a better idea?

Drinking is definitely out of question from now on. :cry:
 

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stick to your usual eating but skip the weights. maybe some cardio in the p.m. if you feel better by then. see how you go.
 

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This is why I don't drink often, and when I do drink, I drink just as I would if it was juice or something. A few here or there, no shots, no straight stuff, no pounding. Just social drinking, and only if it tastes good.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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That's why I'm a beer drinker. They hit you slow so it's easier to stop at a buzz. That and I like the taste of beer :)
 

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Hey its ok to miss a workout once in awhile. Just don't make it a regular thing. Your body shouldn't be too off.
 
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