So...well i was invited to a small get together from a girl that i dig. Background on her is, that there is none. WE had a class together and started hangin out, but I have never made any moves, never really thought about it. But, we have a connection and i want to see her more.
SO, i drink before i go to her house. Get their kick it for a while. At some point during the night, someone goes into my backpack that was on the couch and takes some liquor of mine. When im drunk i can get upset easily. So upset about the principle of the matter i am pissed off.
I didnt talk trash to anyone, but apparantly i was starin real hard at one guy and when i talked to this girl today, she told me "(I) didnt act like me and that it seemed like someone else, and that i am an angry drunk."
I take things to heart. I jsut do. I want people to enjoy my company and I want people to have positive experiences when around me.
But im not a biatch. If someone is stupid i'll tell them. However, last night i was quiet jsut real upset. So, apparntley i wasnt myself and so, i walk home.
I feel bad and when talking to this girl today i felt bad. WE have hung out alot but im concerned that i messed up hard last night, maybe im just to hard on myself. I didnt fight or argue, i was just real upset. So, she says " you haev been sayin we never drink together so we finally do and you were in the other room."
Everyone was playin drinkin games and i was like, damn, i dont need a game to get drunk, plus their were no seats so i sat on the couch. also a way to see if she would come sit down.
Am i overreacting? THis is a good example of why you dont drink before visitng a girl you have an interest in. I dont think ill call her, but if she wants to call me thats cool. Did i blow it?
I would like to think there is enough history of at least a friendship that it wouldnt be a big deal, but you never know.
What should I do?
SO, i drink before i go to her house. Get their kick it for a while. At some point during the night, someone goes into my backpack that was on the couch and takes some liquor of mine. When im drunk i can get upset easily. So upset about the principle of the matter i am pissed off.
I didnt talk trash to anyone, but apparantly i was starin real hard at one guy and when i talked to this girl today, she told me "(I) didnt act like me and that it seemed like someone else, and that i am an angry drunk."
I take things to heart. I jsut do. I want people to enjoy my company and I want people to have positive experiences when around me.
But im not a biatch. If someone is stupid i'll tell them. However, last night i was quiet jsut real upset. So, apparntley i wasnt myself and so, i walk home.
I feel bad and when talking to this girl today i felt bad. WE have hung out alot but im concerned that i messed up hard last night, maybe im just to hard on myself. I didnt fight or argue, i was just real upset. So, she says " you haev been sayin we never drink together so we finally do and you were in the other room."
Everyone was playin drinkin games and i was like, damn, i dont need a game to get drunk, plus their were no seats so i sat on the couch. also a way to see if she would come sit down.
Am i overreacting? THis is a good example of why you dont drink before visitng a girl you have an interest in. I dont think ill call her, but if she wants to call me thats cool. Did i blow it?
I would like to think there is enough history of at least a friendship that it wouldnt be a big deal, but you never know.
What should I do?
Also remember if it did come to getting it on you wouldn't be in any state to.