"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Got ditched on New Years

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wheelin&dealin

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Nobody here can judge the situation between you two. If she did something that is unforgivable, drop her. If not, keep her. You're asking this forum advice on something that is impossible to analyze.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Well she got back to me... texted me while I was at the gym.

"I will definately make it up to you. You'll find out when I am home again.

Thank you for choosing to spend time with me. You know I always love spending time with you.

Off to bed. Goodnight."
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A woman who has a high interest in a man would call him up immediatly to clear the air up and not send text messages and wait for the next day. You need to face the facts that you are not on her priority list, you are a peg down below her girlfriend (if that wasn't a lie and she wasn't seeing another guy that night - wouldn't the right thing to do was at least invite you too??!! she choose on the first day of the year to spend it with someone other then you,) I hope you are at least planning on spinning more plates because this one you should consider spining out like a freezbee through an open window.
 
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