"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Got ditched on New Years

wheelin&dealin

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Nobody here can judge the situation between you two. If she did something that is unforgivable, drop her. If not, keep her. You're asking this forum advice on something that is impossible to analyze.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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DJDamage

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Well she got back to me... texted me while I was at the gym.

"I will definately make it up to you. You'll find out when I am home again.

Thank you for choosing to spend time with me. You know I always love spending time with you.

Off to bed. Goodnight."

A woman who has a high interest in a man would call him up immediatly to clear the air up and not send text messages and wait for the next day. You need to face the facts that you are not on her priority list, you are a peg down below her girlfriend (if that wasn't a lie and she wasn't seeing another guy that night - wouldn't the right thing to do was at least invite you too??!! she choose on the first day of the year to spend it with someone other then you,) I hope you are at least planning on spinning more plates because this one you should consider spining out like a freezbee through an open window.
 
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