“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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got dissed by AW pretty hard

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ive known this chick for a while somewhat. shes cool but scandalous. never really messed around with her before but flirted etc. she is such a huge AW its not even funny.

there is this other chick that i like that is over my house quite often. AW decides to call me to hang out cause her and her"bf" are not getting along and are not together i guess. i was like well ill bring her over my house to use her to make the chick i like jealous. i did this the last two days in a row. so we all end up getting drunk etc. AW and i are all over each other basically like ass grabbing, holding hands, doin other sh1t. this is all happening at my house. chick i like was not around at this point. me AW and some others go to the bar.

I know she wants to go and run into her so called "bf". this kid and his friends are defiantley not at my level and neither is AW. at the bar we are still all over each other. in my head i was like ok im probably going to fvck her tonight. she sees her "bf" and talks to him etc. i tell her stop fvcking worrying who gives a sh1t. shes like yea i know. end of the night comes and i was like lets go home. she says hold on. goes and sits down next to some dude, couldve been her bf's roomate. but she starts leaning on him etc. i was like lets go then she said ill meet you later. that p1ssed me off. cause dude was clearly a dork etc. my friend goes up to her and says were leaving good luck finding a ride home. then i go up and say you hang out with d0uche bags and say something else, i cant remember. but i give her a look and walk away.

i dont know if she tried calling or not cause my phone was dead. im not really super surprised just a little though AW behavior. swear im not going to talk to her but if i do im just going to say you know what you hang out with d0uche bags and i feel like im one of those guys so its probably better we dont talk again. should send her the message that she fvcked up.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I hope you have your defensive shield up because they are about to lay into you.
 

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lol
sounds like you think way too highly of yourself when you are the loser

never had a chick do that to me, she's probably playing you like a 4 year old and you think you the man LOL
 

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you made yourself look like the dork.

After she said "hold on" you should have said this is your last chance to leave, and if she chose to stay with him, her loss. Your friend played it right saying good luck finding a ride home. If you know she's an AW, why give her the attention?

To do some damage control I wouldn't talk to her until she initiates convo, then DONT TALK ABOUT HOW SHE HANGS WITH D0UCHEBAGS!

The guy who hangs out with the girl always seems like a d0uche, doesn't he? Well not to her. She's putting out for him. Just don't even care. Let her lose all her dignity and respect by hanging out with losers. Its her loss.

Don't give her attention. Its the worst thing for her.
 

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Scolding an AW goes right over their head.

The only language AW understand is you playing jealousy games of your own with other chicks or withdrawing your attention for bad behavior.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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jcap go fvck yourself. gurantee got more sh1t going than you there buddy. im not going to say anymore but i know i got more sh1t than you.

im not the dork and she knows that. it was lmr that played a role in it. she probably sensed thats all i wanted from her. she knows im cooler than other dudes she knows.
 

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She played you like a pawn.

A pawn is a chess piece that is considered the weakest piece and is often the first piece to die.

It is also means "one who is easily manipulated" or "one who is sacrificed for a larger purpose".

This chick "INVITED HERSELF" to come over to your house and you thought you will use her as your own pawn to increase the interest of the chick you really wanted. However Karma is a b1tch and she had her own game going.

You were the one that was used. Her BF stopped paying attention to her so now she went right to the guy who she KNEW would pay attention to her and she doesn't even have to sleep with him. It did not mean it was over between the two of them.

Alas you arrived in the bar and you already thought you were going to get this chick to bed but again as I said before, KARMA IS A B1TCH (she used the same tactic you tried to use on her to attract the chick you liked, in order to make her BF jealous). Now when that didn't work she decided to make YOU jealous (which you were) and went to hang around her BF roomate.

Lets face it, you were outplayed in this game and lost.

If I were you, I would never allow someone to invite themselves into my house. No chick should just hang out in your house, if a chick comes over where you invited her then she should be aware that she would probably get fvcked that night. Since you acted too aloof and didn't know what to do, both the chick you like and the AW got too comfortable around you and as a result the chances of you nailing either one decreased tremendously. I mean who goes with a chick to the bar after they been in your house without banging them? first take them to the bar then take them home to bang.
 

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Have you even tried making a move on the chick you like prior to this? I ask because theres no point in trying to make her jelous if you don't have the balls to do anything with her. You probably screwed it up with her now.
 

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I think you handled it alright except waiting when she said hold on.

I have made those mistakes several times, I usually just say Ace Deuce and start laughing like I saw someone fall on their face.

Don't worry bout it, don't answer phone calls or texts.
 

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DJDamage said:
She played you like a pawn.

A pawn is a chess piece that is considered the weakest piece and is often the first piece to die.

It is also means "one who is easily manipulated" or "one who is sacrificed for a larger purpose".

This chick "INVITED HERSELF" to come over to your house and you thought you will use her as your own pawn to increase the interest of the chick you really wanted. However Karma is a b1tch and she had her own game going.

You were the one that was used. Her BF stopped paying attention to her so now she went right to the guy who she KNEW would pay attention to her and she doesn't even have to sleep with him. It did not mean it was over between the two of them.

Alas you arrived in the bar and you already thought you were going to get this chick to bed but again as I said before, KARMA IS A B1TCH (she used the same tactic you tried to use on her to attract the chick you liked, in order to make her BF jealous). Now when that didn't work she decided to make YOU jealous (which you were) and went to hang around her BF roomate.

Lets face it, you were outplayed in this game and lost.
:down: dumb logic.

come on, do you really think a typical attention whore has enough rationale to come up with that lil chess game you came up with?

sure the pieces fell into place that way, but it wasn't her plan to play him EXACTLY like that.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Michele said:
:down: dumb logic.

come on, do you really think a typical attention whore has enough rationale to come up with that lil chess game you came up with?

sure the pieces fell into place that way, but it wasn't her plan to play him EXACTLY like that.
That was not rationalized by the AW. She did what was came naturally to her and that was to seek attention. You be surprise what web of lies many girls have woven in their lives just to be the centre of attention and become popular.
 

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DJDamage said:
That was not rationalized by the AW. She did what was came naturally to her and that was to seek attention. You be surprise what web of lies many girls have woven in their lives just to be the centre of attention and become popular.
yeah, that makes more sense to me, i guess. just natural AW traits.
 

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well the AW called me the next morning (saturday) like early. she knew she fvcked up. anyways we ended up haning out basically wend, thurs, fri, sat, sun. she slept over 3 out of those nights. during the days we were haning out with a bunch of friends. she was all over me like crazy, kind of p1ssed me off cause it was a little too much in front of that girl i like. i didnt fvck her we just slept and spooned etc. i know exactly what she is doing. i even told her. shes on the rebound all butt hurt about her tool bf. i dont wanna be mean to her but she better start making moves on me otherwise im done with her. she said if i tried to make a move on her she wouldnt care, haha yea rigth she would deny me to make herself feel good cause she got denied by her bf or whatever he is. its hard cause ive known her for a while before this and we were never like this. im not going to call her or initiate anything. theres a good chance shes going to call me tonight to sleep over. ill let her but if we dont fvck then i will seriously kick her out and be done with her.

i wanna fvck the other girl but she might think whatever about me and the AW. guess i pushed it too far to make her jealous. this weekened a bunch of us are going camping including the girl i like. i am not going to allow AW to come.
 
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