DMSR76
Senior Don Juan
Excellent post.Kidquick said:
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Got Cheated And Left For Another Guy..im Pissed!
- Thread starter lexx
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
ok after 2 months of cutting contact
ok guys so after 2 months of cutting contact with this ho she texted me 4 times and called me twice asking for her sweater back in which she never used while she was dating me...and it made me feel like ****...so i ignored the text and all and now she's calling me an ******* and immature...what the **** does she want from?
ok guys so after 2 months of cutting contact with this ho she texted me 4 times and called me twice asking for her sweater back in which she never used while she was dating me...and it made me feel like ****...so i ignored the text and all and now she's calling me an ******* and immature...what the **** does she want from?
she says those things because you aren't doing what she wants or expects you to do. You are being your own man. Keep it up.
If she really wanted her sh!t back she would come over and get it. If she isn't doing this, she just wants to create drama and you're not going to fall into that.
If she really wanted her sh!t back she would come over and get it. If she isn't doing this, she just wants to create drama and you're not going to fall into that.
Trajhenkhet01
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Ignore her. I was in something that lasted 4 years and then for the last year, things got bad for me so I left. As far as calls and texts go, I don't respond to them unless it has a good chance of me ending up inside her (not in her mind either 
). If your done with her ignore her. If you need something a bit more physical, get it if you can, but don't expect any kind of emotional support or completion anymore.
). If your done with her ignore her. If you need something a bit more physical, get it if you can, but don't expect any kind of emotional support or completion anymore.Trajhenkhet01 said:Ignore her. I was in something that lasted 4 years and then for the last year, things got bad for me so I left. As far as calls and texts go, I don't respond to them unless it has a good chance of me ending up inside her (not in her mind either
thanks! an ex calling seems really **** up with your head and now it got me thinking
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.