"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Got Cheated And Left For Another Guy..im Pissed!

DMSR76

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Kidquick said:
First, it's essential that you grow some balls. Second, you need to delete her number from your phone, and throw out all her crap, or burn it. You need to cut off all contact from this girl permanently. A FB relationship is out of question, you're obviously still attached to her emotionally, and it's completely f*cked your judgement.

I may be coming across as harsh here, but I've been in a very similar situation as you and it's one of my biggest regrets that didn't take the advice I've given you. You don't yet seem to be comprehending how bad this girl has disrespected you, and she will not change. You didn't mention how old you are, but it's time to chalk this up as a learning experience and move on with your life. I guarantee you'll look back on this a few years from now and be glad you did.
Excellent post.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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ok after 2 months of cutting contact

ok guys so after 2 months of cutting contact with this ho she texted me 4 times and called me twice asking for her sweater back in which she never used while she was dating me...and it made me feel like ****...so i ignored the text and all and now she's calling me an ******* and immature...what the **** does she want from?
 

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she says those things because you aren't doing what she wants or expects you to do. You are being your own man. Keep it up.

If she really wanted her sh!t back she would come over and get it. If she isn't doing this, she just wants to create drama and you're not going to fall into that.
 

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Ignore her. I was in something that lasted 4 years and then for the last year, things got bad for me so I left. As far as calls and texts go, I don't respond to them unless it has a good chance of me ending up inside her (not in her mind either ;) ). If your done with her ignore her. If you need something a bit more physical, get it if you can, but don't expect any kind of emotional support or completion anymore.
 

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Trajhenkhet01 said:
Ignore her. I was in something that lasted 4 years and then for the last year, things got bad for me so I left. As far as calls and texts go, I don't respond to them unless it has a good chance of me ending up inside her (not in her mind either ;) ). If your done with her ignore her. If you need something a bit more physical, get it if you can, but don't expect any kind of emotional support or completion anymore.


thanks! an ex calling seems really **** up with your head and now it got me thinking
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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