"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Got Cheated And Left For Another Guy..im Pissed!

DMSR76

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Kidquick said:
First, it's essential that you grow some balls. Second, you need to delete her number from your phone, and throw out all her crap, or burn it. You need to cut off all contact from this girl permanently. A FB relationship is out of question, you're obviously still attached to her emotionally, and it's completely f*cked your judgement.

I may be coming across as harsh here, but I've been in a very similar situation as you and it's one of my biggest regrets that didn't take the advice I've given you. You don't yet seem to be comprehending how bad this girl has disrespected you, and she will not change. You didn't mention how old you are, but it's time to chalk this up as a learning experience and move on with your life. I guarantee you'll look back on this a few years from now and be glad you did.
Excellent post.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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lexx

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ok after 2 months of cutting contact

ok guys so after 2 months of cutting contact with this ho she texted me 4 times and called me twice asking for her sweater back in which she never used while she was dating me...and it made me feel like ****...so i ignored the text and all and now she's calling me an ******* and immature...what the **** does she want from?
 

Cashew

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she says those things because you aren't doing what she wants or expects you to do. You are being your own man. Keep it up.

If she really wanted her sh!t back she would come over and get it. If she isn't doing this, she just wants to create drama and you're not going to fall into that.
 

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Ignore her. I was in something that lasted 4 years and then for the last year, things got bad for me so I left. As far as calls and texts go, I don't respond to them unless it has a good chance of me ending up inside her (not in her mind either ;) ). If your done with her ignore her. If you need something a bit more physical, get it if you can, but don't expect any kind of emotional support or completion anymore.
 

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Trajhenkhet01 said:
Ignore her. I was in something that lasted 4 years and then for the last year, things got bad for me so I left. As far as calls and texts go, I don't respond to them unless it has a good chance of me ending up inside her (not in her mind either ;) ). If your done with her ignore her. If you need something a bit more physical, get it if you can, but don't expect any kind of emotional support or completion anymore.


thanks! an ex calling seems really **** up with your head and now it got me thinking
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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