"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Got c*ckblocked last night

mattb717

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Went and met a few friends at the bar last night for a few drinks. When I got there I noticed there were two new girls with our usual group that I'd never met before. One of them I'd say was about an hb8. That was my target. I had one of my female friends that seemed to know her pretty well introduce us and I took a seat next to her and starting chatting her up. Asking lots of open-ended questions, letting her do the vast majority of the talking. With the exception of a few jokes and short answers I didn't say much. I didn't really go for anykind of kino, but noticed when she would get up for any reason she'd run her hand across my shoulders ro brush against my leg. I'd occasionally get myself and go chat with other people for a few minutes then come back and chat more with her.

Then things took a turn for the worst. My best friend, whom is having some personal problems right now got pretty trashed. In amongst my one of my times were I left her sitting to chat with someone else I look out the window and notice my friend stumbling around the parking lot. Long story short I had to literally disappear and haul ass to the parking lot to retrieve my drunken friend without making a scene out of it. By the time I managed to get him in my truck and drove him home all my friends had already left the bar. Whether or not it was a good call I'm not sure but I did call the girl that introduced myself and the hb8 and apologize for my taking off like that.

So close.....yet so far away.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Same here mate.....fvcking gutted....

Read my FR.
 

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noticed when she would get up for any reason she'd run her hand across my shoulders ro brush against my leg.

She was giving you the green light. I would have started a little Kino with her and gotten her number (just incase something came up) then I would have continued to be social with the group.

Nice job being social with everyone by the way. Most guys would of attached themselves to this girl all night.

and apologize for my taking off like that.

I don't agree with this move. Who is she that you feel the need to apologize to? Call her up, setup a time and place to meet for coffee or lunch and be done with it. It's none of her business why you left, but if she's curious enough to know what happened, let her ask.
 

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thanks for the advice. I wasn't sure it was wise on my desicion to apologize.
 

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Fair cop where its due!

You are a real sport and did the decent thing rescueing your friend . . But I would have words with him, and let him know in no uncertain terms, that that was the last time you go out of your way like this!:trouble:

If one is an idiot . .Then . Your old enough to get drunk, your old enough to take responsibility . .:kick:

This only shows that as far as women go, it is always better to operate as a lone wolf . .
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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