"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I was about to ask a HB8 today and I was a line away from asking. I was about to say got any big plans this weekend, from there I would have asked her out and for her #. At that moment another girl that has been all over me since school started came up to me and basically mauled me. I didn't want to make a scene and come out disrespectful in front of HB8. So I just tried to be friendly, HB8 said "bye" and walked away.

I want to try again tomorrow, but here's my question. She's got a state Cross Country Meet tomorrow, and she might be nervous. Is it a good idea to approach and ask for her # tomorrow? Or should I just be patient and wait til Monday? Advice would be appreciated.

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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Nervous?! Enlighten her with your graces and the honor to go out with you.
 
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Originally posted by LikRetsam
Nervous?! Enlighten her with your graces and the honor to go out with you.
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Well she is shy, I meant about the race. You're right though. I just re-read the bible and the thing that stuck out to me was the quote "Don't care about the girls interests until dating."

I'll make my move tomorrow.

Thanks for the reply Lik.
 
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Originally posted by cyjay201
Is it a good idea to approach and ask for her # tomorrow? Or should I just be patient and wait til Monday? Advice would be appreciated.
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Just as long as it's convenient for her, right? [end sarcasm]

If you want to wait until Monday, then go right ahead....but if I were you, I'd do it the first time I see her tomorrow.

Who knows? That might get her into a good mood for the race. ;)
 
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Hey guys. Thought I'd update you.

I got her number, told her maybe I'd give her a call later next week to see if we could hook up next Saturday.

She said "okay" it went pretty well. She's pretty shy, I made her blush quite a bit.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Originally posted by Don Rockstar
it happens to the best of us..
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No it doesn't.
 
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Originally posted by Vincent
stfu capi... i mean lik
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very becoming of a moderator.
 
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