"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I was about to ask a HB8 today and I was a line away from asking. I was about to say got any big plans this weekend, from there I would have asked her out and for her #. At that moment another girl that has been all over me since school started came up to me and basically mauled me. I didn't want to make a scene and come out disrespectful in front of HB8. So I just tried to be friendly, HB8 said "bye" and walked away.

I want to try again tomorrow, but here's my question. She's got a state Cross Country Meet tomorrow, and she might be nervous. Is it a good idea to approach and ask for her # tomorrow? Or should I just be patient and wait til Monday? Advice would be appreciated.

Thanks.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Nervous?! Enlighten her with your graces and the honor to go out with you.
 
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Originally posted by LikRetsam
Nervous?! Enlighten her with your graces and the honor to go out with you.
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Well she is shy, I meant about the race. You're right though. I just re-read the bible and the thing that stuck out to me was the quote "Don't care about the girls interests until dating."

I'll make my move tomorrow.

Thanks for the reply Lik.
 
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Originally posted by cyjay201
Is it a good idea to approach and ask for her # tomorrow? Or should I just be patient and wait til Monday? Advice would be appreciated.
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Just as long as it's convenient for her, right? [end sarcasm]

If you want to wait until Monday, then go right ahead....but if I were you, I'd do it the first time I see her tomorrow.

Who knows? That might get her into a good mood for the race. ;)
 
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Hey guys. Thought I'd update you.

I got her number, told her maybe I'd give her a call later next week to see if we could hook up next Saturday.

She said "okay" it went pretty well. She's pretty shy, I made her blush quite a bit.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Originally posted by Don Rockstar
it happens to the best of us..
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No it doesn't.
 
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Originally posted by Vincent
stfu capi... i mean lik
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very becoming of a moderator.
 
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