"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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TheMonkeyKing

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Not sure if I was too ballsy for a 'noob', or if these folks are just special needs, basement-dwelling, keyboard-humping plastic dons.... probably a combination. To me, a permanent ban seems not only OTT reactionary, but also highly hypocritical owing to the comments of the so-called senior members.

All the same, I have no need for that kind of thing in my life anyway. Any respect I had for Roosh has now dissipated for allowing such hypocrisy to occur in his name.

https://www.rooshvforum.com/thread-58348.html

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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I'm in disbelief you got banned for that thread. Not only that, the thread turned into a debate over forum rules instead of the article with proves to be quite interesting and worthy of discussion. There were a couple of others in that thread that IMO should have been warned or banned instead.

One thing I try to keep in mind while helping run this forum is to keep things open for new members to come, learn, and share. Sure that sounds fvcking gay on paper, but this place has been progressive in it's knowledge since I joined here in 2001. My job here is to keep the garbage out as opposed to keeping the club exclusive.
 

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I'm in disbelief you got banned for that thread. Not only that, the thread turned into a debate over forum rules instead of the article with proves to be quite interesting and worthy of discussion. There were a couple of others in that thread that IMO should have been warned or banned instead.

One thing I try to keep in mind while helping run this forum is to keep things open for new members to come, learn, and share. Sure that sounds fvcking gay on paper, but this place has been progressive in it's knowledge since I joined here in 2001. My job here is to keep the garbage out as opposed to keeping the club exclusive.
I'm so glad you agree. The whole thing was absolutely pathetic; like, I could not believe what I was reading!

'Deference to 'senior' members'..... what about if a 'senior' member is acting like a c*nt...! Fcking, sad w@nkers.
 

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Yea, those guys spent a lot of time hating on you instead of responding to the damn article. They put so much energy in arguing over a title that they didn't even have to post in in the first place. I guess they had nothing better to do. Those are definitely some keyboard jockeys. I only like that forum for the Money Advice and the Travel section.Those two forums are very useful.
 

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Wow, that's beyond belief, especially where you have to defer to senior members.

Most definitely keyboard warriors, no time for it!

I'd never actually been on that site until now, won't be going back!
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Half way into the thread I lost it and thought I am on 4chan again.
There really are some sad cvnts out there roaming those boards.
I salute you for staying civil and watching the fireworks.
 

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I don't think any of those guys get girls. Just the way they typed out their messages gives off that vibe.
Yeah. There were far too many of them, all taking far too much glee and interest, paying far too much concern to my posting 'style' than the subject matter. I bet they over-analyse girls' text messages in a similar vain.
 

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Not sure if I was too ballsy for a 'noob', or if these folks are just special needs, basement-dwelling, keyboard-humping plastic dons.... probably a combination. To me, a permanent ban seems not only OTT reactionary, but also highly hypocritical owing to the comments of the so-called senior members.

All the same, I have no need for that kind of thing in my life anyway. Any respect I had for Roosh has now dissipated for allowing such hypocrisy to occur in his name.

https://www.rooshvforum.com/thread-58348.html

Third party views welcome.

Looks likena boys club that you're better off not being in. The way i seen it:

You posted a link.
Got insulted for posting a link.
You pointed at the rules.
Got insulted for pointing out the rules.
Defended yourself.
Got piled on by a bunch of whiney idiots.
Stood up for yourself again.
They hid behind the rule of senior members having mor rights than you.
Then some how you were banned.

You don't need idiots like that.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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There are some Roosh members that have good input, but I first started reading that forum maybe 2 years ago. In that time I've seen a marked change in the number of morons posting stupid crap, namely an increase. One of my favorites was how some were "advising" other members on proper positioning of a woman during sex. One of the guys specifically described getting a woman into a position to blow a load on her face and he was so specific in the details, that sort of description can only be remembered from watching a lot of porn.

But yes I agree, a majority of the members there sort of talk a good game, but you can tell they fall drastically short when it comes to actually stepping away from the keyboard and getting out to socialize with women.
 

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Isn't Roosh the 35 years old living in his mom basement?

He's Persian and might travel but why follow someone who's preaching and not living.

Sounds, you meet some monkey warriors challenging the monkey king to a keyboard fight and YOU won.

This forum way better. Roosh is only good for travel advice
 

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I appreciate the reactions here; because indeed the mentality there is basically polar opposite to here.

Here, we have a dojo, where the ego is left at the door (we may overstep the mark on occasion). That place is an ivory tower.

The funniest thing was the message I got upon my ban:

"Your forum account is currently banned. Ban Reason: Bad attitude
Ban will be lifted: Never"


Like, I'm now crying a fcking river, here.... senior members, indeed.
 

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You aren't and won't be the last person to be banned on that site for nothing.

I've been in a same situation...that place is cynical, and if you challenge any of the established views (something I do generally) you get banned.

That site is not about improving or giving good advise, but more about maintaining the status quo...
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Eh, to play devil's advocate TMK, that first responder to your OP was a jack ass, but the rest seemed to be just giving you some practical advice. You did let that first poster get to you, and you responded emotionally....and kept it up. That's why you got banned.
 

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ur way too serious bro. what everyone is failing to see is how butthurt ur getting, and over what? why come with these grandiose responses...just let it slide man. ignore the haters, offer a quick apology and elaborate on your link. problem solved. no use in getting dragged into all that..its weak bro


ive seen chit like that play out on evry forum ive ever visitied. even on here. ive even been guilty of it myself. ive learned. its so dumb to do it hence now i dont.
 

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You did let that first poster get to you, and you responded emotionally....and kept it up
ur way too serious bro. what everyone is failing to see is how butthurt ur getting, and over what?
I'm not sure how calling people's hypocritical bullsh!t out is an emotional response. As I see it, they started cursing and name-calling because of an absolutely pathetic unwritten forum rule, which is far more emotional than anything I came back with.

It might seem butthurt to come back here posting about the experience, but again, I see it as exemplifying the way some people behave. These kind of guys will be the first to complain about a woman's behaviour, but then they'll also cry when someone calls out their own bullsh!t behaviour.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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