"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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got another "yes"

slitherjef

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In other words a 2nd "date" with the chick I had my first date with a couple weeks ago. This time its out to a park with cameras. So I guess an action date.

We are suppost to go after we get off work tomorrow. She gets off 30 before I do so I told her she may have to wait a little bit until I got off then said not to worry I'm worth waiting for. :D

She smiled and giggled a bit. When I asked if she wanted to join me going to the park she did not hesitate to give an enthusiastic sure.

Goals for this outing is kino and kiss close if it feels right and most of all have fun.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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how much did you do sexually on the first date? if you didn't make out, then it was not a date
 

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taking pictures at the park is a great idea for a date!
go have some fun and work out those kino skills.
 

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Real said:
how much did you do sexually on the first date? if you didn't make out, then it was not a date
No make out session, so I guess according to YOUR RULES ("its not a date, unless you make out" which is how I read what you wrote) I did not have a date. But no, it really was not a "date" per se, nor is the outing to the park that is planned tomorrow, that is, unless, of course, we end up making out :cool:

So I guess for now I could use, "Isolating a chick whom I am attracted to" instead of date.

BTW, you obviously are more experinced with chicks then I am, so I was wondering why you say there is no date unless you make out with her. Thought the reason to date was to find out more about someone... then go from there? I would like to hear your take
 
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