"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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got another "yes"

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In other words a 2nd "date" with the chick I had my first date with a couple weeks ago. This time its out to a park with cameras. So I guess an action date.

We are suppost to go after we get off work tomorrow. She gets off 30 before I do so I told her she may have to wait a little bit until I got off then said not to worry I'm worth waiting for. :D

She smiled and giggled a bit. When I asked if she wanted to join me going to the park she did not hesitate to give an enthusiastic sure.

Goals for this outing is kino and kiss close if it feels right and most of all have fun.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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how much did you do sexually on the first date? if you didn't make out, then it was not a date
 
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taking pictures at the park is a great idea for a date!
go have some fun and work out those kino skills.
 
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how much did you do sexually on the first date? if you didn't make out, then it was not a date
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No make out session, so I guess according to YOUR RULES ("its not a date, unless you make out" which is how I read what you wrote) I did not have a date. But no, it really was not a "date" per se, nor is the outing to the park that is planned tomorrow, that is, unless, of course, we end up making out :cool:

So I guess for now I could use, "Isolating a chick whom I am attracted to" instead of date.

BTW, you obviously are more experinced with chicks then I am, so I was wondering why you say there is no date unless you make out with her. Thought the reason to date was to find out more about someone... then go from there? I would like to hear your take
 
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