"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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got another "yes"

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In other words a 2nd "date" with the chick I had my first date with a couple weeks ago. This time its out to a park with cameras. So I guess an action date.

We are suppost to go after we get off work tomorrow. She gets off 30 before I do so I told her she may have to wait a little bit until I got off then said not to worry I'm worth waiting for. :D

She smiled and giggled a bit. When I asked if she wanted to join me going to the park she did not hesitate to give an enthusiastic sure.

Goals for this outing is kino and kiss close if it feels right and most of all have fun.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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how much did you do sexually on the first date? if you didn't make out, then it was not a date
 
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taking pictures at the park is a great idea for a date!
go have some fun and work out those kino skills.
 
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how much did you do sexually on the first date? if you didn't make out, then it was not a date
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No make out session, so I guess according to YOUR RULES ("its not a date, unless you make out" which is how I read what you wrote) I did not have a date. But no, it really was not a "date" per se, nor is the outing to the park that is planned tomorrow, that is, unless, of course, we end up making out :cool:

So I guess for now I could use, "Isolating a chick whom I am attracted to" instead of date.

BTW, you obviously are more experinced with chicks then I am, so I was wondering why you say there is no date unless you make out with her. Thought the reason to date was to find out more about someone... then go from there? I would like to hear your take
 
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