Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Latinoman

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I like Albion idea. Heck, sending that might get her interest back up again! Weird things can happen with women.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Why is it so important to get her interest "back up" again?

If she's not interested in you, why try to trick her into having interest?
 

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I back TooCold!

Anotherwords:

Any intelligent fool can make things bigger, more complex, and more violent. It takes a touch of genius—and a lot of courage—to move in the opposite direction.
--E. F. Schumacker
 

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drZaius09 said:
Why is it so important to get her interest "back up" again?

If she's not interested in you, why try to trick her into having interest?
It is not important at all. In fact, it is irrelevant.

The reason I even say that was to illustrate how some women react to "azzhole" behavior from time to time. I didn't illustrate that to give him hope...because he should not reply for that reason (getting her interested).
 
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