"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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donjuanapprentice01

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Ok guys, I got an e-mail back from a girl I asked out.

She basically told me that she was busy for the rest of the week, as she has school and work. Told me she would let me know when she had some free time. I figure if she was interested enough, she would have made time, so am I right to assume she has a low interest level? Keep in mind this was a chick who I caught checking me out when I was in the store. If that helps any.

Now, I was thinking of gaming her some more, by going in sometime this weekend to rent a movie, and then ask her when her shift is done to meet me at a bar or club. Would this come off as too needy? Or should I give it a shot?

Sorry if this comes off as dumb, but after the last experience I need all the help I can get. :)
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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DonJuanMonk

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Yeah it might come off as needy. I would keep building rapport but watch her signs.

I mean, how do you know she's into you? Is she taking longer than usual to check your rental out? Is she all shy/blushy when you talk to her? I mean, GIVE ME more details.
 
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If there is a place you genuinely want to go casually offer to have her meet your there when you bump into her.

There is a difference between persistence and neediness.
If she declines, the ball is in her court, go find some other girls. Let her contact you. And next time you go to where she works or whatever, leave her alone, dont even look at her. Or better yet have a good looking girl with you.
 
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donjuanapprentice01

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Originally posted by DonJuanMonk
Yeah it might come off as needy. I would keep building rapport but watch her signs.

I mean, how do you know she's into you? Is she taking longer than usual to check your rental out? Is she all shy/blushy when you talk to her? I mean, GIVE ME more details.
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Basically, when I'm in the store, I catch her looking at me, that's what I meant by "checking me out". lol, although she does take a while to check out my rental, even though she has been working there for a while. Also, she is very chatty when I'm in the store, unlike the other employees.
 
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