"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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donjuanapprentice01

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Ok guys, I got an e-mail back from a girl I asked out.

She basically told me that she was busy for the rest of the week, as she has school and work. Told me she would let me know when she had some free time. I figure if she was interested enough, she would have made time, so am I right to assume she has a low interest level? Keep in mind this was a chick who I caught checking me out when I was in the store. If that helps any.

Now, I was thinking of gaming her some more, by going in sometime this weekend to rent a movie, and then ask her when her shift is done to meet me at a bar or club. Would this come off as too needy? Or should I give it a shot?

Sorry if this comes off as dumb, but after the last experience I need all the help I can get. :)
 

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Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

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DonJuanMonk

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Yeah it might come off as needy. I would keep building rapport but watch her signs.

I mean, how do you know she's into you? Is she taking longer than usual to check your rental out? Is she all shy/blushy when you talk to her? I mean, GIVE ME more details.
 
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If there is a place you genuinely want to go casually offer to have her meet your there when you bump into her.

There is a difference between persistence and neediness.
If she declines, the ball is in her court, go find some other girls. Let her contact you. And next time you go to where she works or whatever, leave her alone, dont even look at her. Or better yet have a good looking girl with you.
 
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donjuanapprentice01

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Originally posted by DonJuanMonk
Yeah it might come off as needy. I would keep building rapport but watch her signs.

I mean, how do you know she's into you? Is she taking longer than usual to check your rental out? Is she all shy/blushy when you talk to her? I mean, GIVE ME more details.
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Basically, when I'm in the store, I catch her looking at me, that's what I meant by "checking me out". lol, although she does take a while to check out my rental, even though she has been working there for a while. Also, she is very chatty when I'm in the store, unlike the other employees.
 
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