Got a weird email, Need Advice guys ? ? ?

[Enigmatron]

Hi guys

just when i thought i was getting somewhere with this girl with online sex chat, and then i tried it over the phone and i couldnt do it!!! and then later that night i get this email

oh a heads up im going to the cinema wed with this girl, also i have had a hard time opening up to her and showing her the real me!

please help decipher guys as im confused whether to tell her to f*ck off or go out wed and have some fun in the cinema


here it is!!!!!!!
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i want u to know that im bk with a ex... his names brett and he
lives in australia !! he wants what i want a family and were gonna move away when he gets enough money for us to start ... we might be moving away together soon hun thought it might of been best to tell u
this .. the only reason i put the barrier up is because i was in
love with brett and still am but we were having alot of difficulties
of us being soo far apart from each other ... im glad we are friends hun u think i cant get past ure mistakes .... but i have and i thhink its u that is having all these doubts ... as friends we will
have no experiences with each other ... i like u as a friend and as
friends , im not the kinda person to have sex with friends on a on n off basis call me old fashioned but id rather be it with someone i
love ... i dont find myself attracted to u in that kinda way ...
thought it wud come but nothing has for u !! im just saying as it is
hun !! i just ned someone more upbeat and more my type of fella ...
were gonna be good mates if wed goes well that is !!!

Luv
(Name)

P.s i hope u can find a girl to deal with ure complexs !! u say what
complexs n u get a smack round ure head wed hehe

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HELP!!!! My mind is f*cked up now

 

[Jariel]

Ok, this is a total blow off I'm afraid and the ex- thing is probably a lie to let you down easier. Sorry dude.

However, it sounds to me like you had her attracted to begin with but you blew it along the way. The clue is staring me in the face:

P.s i hope u can find a girl to deal with ure complexs !!

Have you been talking to this chick about any personal problems or issues? Have you shown her any insecurities? It would make a lot of sense if you have.

She also said she needs someone more "upbeat", which suggests you may have got too serious with her and need to lighten up more.

I am talking from experience here as I got a similar blow off last year. She was so into me on our first dates, then one night we had a heart to heart where I revealed a few minor insecurities. She told me "you are best keeping some things to yourself" and it was downhill from there. She ended up telling me once she got to know me, I'm not her type.

Confidence is of utmost importance when dealing with women.

 

[Hound_of_Love]

Decipher?! What's to decipher?!

Work on improving yourself and chalk it up to experience.

 

[Tomb]

It's pretty clear, she next you. Now move on and forget about her.

 

[Enigmatron]

thanks for the advice guys, i'll keep you updated, im not exactly hurt or upset, just a bit numb, bring on the next girl

yeah i messed up with her a bit, its all too much to go into months worth of talking online and sharing everything and all emotions and she plays me well and she has had all the power, ive tried to bring it back with the help of this site

but the rot has set in too much now

 

[DJDamage]

Originally posted by Enigmatron
just when i thought i was getting somewhere with this girl with online sex chat

online sex chat?????? realise that the only person you were fvcking that day was yourself. You weren't getting anywhere with her to begin with.

Her e-mail was full of B.S. I believe most of what she wrote was a fabrication of her imagination.

It was a rejection never the less. The last thing she said on the e-mail did make the most sense.

Originally posted by Enigmatron
i hope u can find a girl to deal with ure complexs !! u say what
complexs n u get a smack round ure head wed hehe

She thinks you are a wierdo. Better read the DJ Bible and get out of the house more and try to get REAL SEX next time.

 

[Q-Pid]

I assume you're meeting her on Wednesday?

Pretend you ddin't get the e-mail. And when you see her act much more upbeat. Where's the harm in trying?

Either that or next her & admit defeat.

 

[Enigmatron]

ive emailed her back

q-unit i couldnt just assume as she was gonna show as before she has not, well twice before!!!

what can i say im a sucker!!!

 

[HalfAddict]

e-mail her back and tell her to learn to ****ing spell.

 

[Enigmatron]

lol spell, she dont even talk!!!!!!!!! i have to do all the work and thats whats f*cked me up!!! no interaction!