"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Cherokee

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I've been with this chick for a while now, and she came out with the weirdest question recently. Everything has been going well, I'm in the midst of my game and have her "in love" with me and I think shes awesome aswell...
basically she said "Do you think we argue enough?... I mean, we hardly ever argue! I think we should argue more!"
and she was being serious, other than the prospect that I might have a bunny boiling psycho on my hands...

can anyone give me an insight to wtf this means...:whistle:

cheers guys
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Unbridled_Phoenix

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Maybe she thinks your relationship is boring, or wants make-up sex.
 

Cherokee

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Hmm probably, but i shake the tree all the time and throw in spontineaty.

I'll see how it rolls.
 

zekko

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Not arguing is a good thing. But yeah, girls love drama. She's just daydreaming and talking about the relationship, I wouldn't take it too seriously. But by all means, do what you can to make it fun and interesting.
 

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This means' I AM BEGINNING TO LOSE INTEREST IN YOU BECAUSE YOU ARE BORING. I WOULD LIKE TO BE VERBALLY CHALLENGED, DEGRADED, ABUSED. YOU CAN EVEN BEAT THE FUVK OUT OF ME SOMETIMES BECAUSE AT THE END OF THE DAY, I AM A WOMAN. I WANT DRAMA, I WANT TO BE TREATED LIKE SHT, I WANT SOMETHING I CAN'T HAVE. YOU ARE BORING!!!!!!!!!!!!


I had a similar situation when I was 22. We went out one night, some guy looked at her, on the way home I started a fight on purpose. I said "Listen, you fuvking rat, if you ever look at another man like that again, I will beat the living fuvk out of you. Then i slammed her head on the window. I said, you hear me? Two days of crying later, she said "I love you sooooooo much, I will never leave you".

The point; STOP BEING BORING.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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In my experience there are certain times when girls just talk ****.
This sounds like one of these times.

If you ever hit an issue where you ask yourself 'wtf does this mean... :confused:', most of the time the best action is to not act. Its been working so far so dont change your game.

Say 'ok' and dont put too much thought into it.

And besides, you arent supposed to argue with a girl. You dont tolerate bull**** and arguments and are ready to ignore and walk away at any unreasonable situation she might cause. She is there to improve your life, not weigh you down, because you have more important agendas.

And honestly, not arguing > arguing. Arguments are a bad sign.
 

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trent81 said:
I had a similar situation when I was 22. We went out one night, some guy looked at her, on the way home I started a fight on purpose. I said "Listen, you fuvking rat, if you ever look at another man like that again, I will beat the living fuvk out of you. Then i slammed her head on the window. I said, you hear me? Two days of crying later, she said "I love you sooooooo much, I will never leave you".
Can i ask, wtf?

You slammed your girlfriends face against a window and said 'Listen, you fuvking rat, if you ever look at another man like that again, I will beat the living fuvk out of you', because a guy looked at her?

I laughed a lot but i dont know if you're being serious..

Thats not healthy and quite illegal.
 
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