"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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thedude4242

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I talked to and socailize with many woman. I am in my mid 20's and I am lean, clean cut, great hygeine and nicely dressed man with a beautiful white smile. I was wondering why someone like me wouldnt have more opportunities. when I go out or I am riding in my car or go the club I have woman who look and stare at me all time. woman tell me I am cute and some even say I am hot. I socialize well with people and can get along with anyone. why do I not have more success or even opportunites to date woman. I have had woman tell me I am intimidating and I look like I am mean. this is all coming from hot girls and they say I need to smile more. but I smile a lot when I am with my friends. can anyone analyze this situation and give me some advice? of course it could be somewhat the woman in my town because people have said this before, you dont know how it is here. thanks. you could say I am doing better than a lot of men I know but whats your opinions.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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moneyisking

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bro, i feel you. i always wonder why i am not picking up dating and all. i wonder am i the only dumbazz that doesn't get it? i tried and tried, but it is mysterious to explain, but as a man, you KNOW SOMETHING IS FVCKED UP.

it's not that simple to explain unfortunately, but we men have this thing called mind, and this does the everything. read "book of pook" you will get many things after you read it. it's eye opening for sure. it opened mine up, it sure will open yours
 

thedude4242

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I got to be a 8 out of 10. I dont have a six packs or rippling muscles but I am lean, dress fresh, clean shoes all the time, I just got out of a friend with benefits relationship with a clean, classy looking beauty and had awesome sex epescially the mental part was really big. the way we met the way it happen and how thing went so well, but I want something new. I know my town is really a negative, everybody knows everybody elses business. I had the most success with woman who were not raised here but move here. I dont maybe if you try with the wrong woman all the time, that could be the problem. woman say I look like and resemble famous "good looking guys" but I cant complain but I want some more.
 

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There are only a few things to you... your looks, your ethics, and your personality. Women won't know your ethical backing right away... so thats out. It leaves you with looks and personality. You've already said that you get tons of compliments about your looks.

That leaves personality.
What do you say and do once you notice a woman staring at you? If you're not aware of how you're acting, you can't possibly fix it!

Pay attention to the things you say and the responses you get from these actions. Focus on whether or not you're making faces at people the next tie you're in a public place.
 

thedude4242

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sounds interesting. focus on whether or not your making faces at people next time you are in public? that is the only part I dont understand. thanks.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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