"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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thedude4242

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I talked to and socailize with many woman. I am in my mid 20's and I am lean, clean cut, great hygeine and nicely dressed man with a beautiful white smile. I was wondering why someone like me wouldnt have more opportunities. when I go out or I am riding in my car or go the club I have woman who look and stare at me all time. woman tell me I am cute and some even say I am hot. I socialize well with people and can get along with anyone. why do I not have more success or even opportunites to date woman. I have had woman tell me I am intimidating and I look like I am mean. this is all coming from hot girls and they say I need to smile more. but I smile a lot when I am with my friends. can anyone analyze this situation and give me some advice? of course it could be somewhat the woman in my town because people have said this before, you dont know how it is here. thanks. you could say I am doing better than a lot of men I know but whats your opinions.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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moneyisking

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bro, i feel you. i always wonder why i am not picking up dating and all. i wonder am i the only dumbazz that doesn't get it? i tried and tried, but it is mysterious to explain, but as a man, you KNOW SOMETHING IS FVCKED UP.

it's not that simple to explain unfortunately, but we men have this thing called mind, and this does the everything. read "book of pook" you will get many things after you read it. it's eye opening for sure. it opened mine up, it sure will open yours
 

thedude4242

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I got to be a 8 out of 10. I dont have a six packs or rippling muscles but I am lean, dress fresh, clean shoes all the time, I just got out of a friend with benefits relationship with a clean, classy looking beauty and had awesome sex epescially the mental part was really big. the way we met the way it happen and how thing went so well, but I want something new. I know my town is really a negative, everybody knows everybody elses business. I had the most success with woman who were not raised here but move here. I dont maybe if you try with the wrong woman all the time, that could be the problem. woman say I look like and resemble famous "good looking guys" but I cant complain but I want some more.
 

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There are only a few things to you... your looks, your ethics, and your personality. Women won't know your ethical backing right away... so thats out. It leaves you with looks and personality. You've already said that you get tons of compliments about your looks.

That leaves personality.
What do you say and do once you notice a woman staring at you? If you're not aware of how you're acting, you can't possibly fix it!

Pay attention to the things you say and the responses you get from these actions. Focus on whether or not you're making faces at people the next tie you're in a public place.
 

thedude4242

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sounds interesting. focus on whether or not your making faces at people next time you are in public? that is the only part I dont understand. thanks.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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