"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Got a problem with my d*ck

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Last night I was unable to c*m.

I had this girl over but she was on her period so we couldn't have sex. It ended up her giving me head for at least 30 minutes and although it felt good, climax was impossible...

I am worried that I am losing sensitivity in my penis. I never really was too aggressive when I fap but this is a huge problem. I fap almost every night out of habit and because it helps me sleep. I just recently started watching porn again, but not every time.

I feel like I have to stop masturbating if I want to feel something in a real sexual encounter. She even said she was gonna swallow. We even watched porn together... I was so mad at myself.

I had blue balls ALL NIGHT and it was my fault.... I had to rub one out once she left because I was in gut-wrenching pain.

I don't understand.

I got a problem with my d*ck.
 
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Last night I was unable to c*m.

I had this girl over but she was on her period so we couldn't have sex. It ended up her giving me head for at least 30 minutes and although it felt good, climax was impossible...

I am worried that I am losing sensitivity in my penis. I never really was too aggressive when I fap but this is a huge problem. I fap almost every night out of habit and because it helps me sleep. I just recently started watching porn again, but not every time.

I feel like I have to stop masturbating if I want to feel something in a real sexual encounter. She even said she was gonna swallow. We even watched porn together... I was so mad at myself.

I had blue balls ALL NIGHT and it was my fault.... I had to rub one out once she left because I was in gut-wrenching pain.

I don't understand.

I got a problem with my d*ck.
fapping and porn can reduce sensitivity to the real thing. Abstain. If you like to nutt before you go to sleep have more situations where you can have a friend come over before bedtime or you go over hers to get your nutt out.

just go without touching it and grow your life to the point where you don't need to because you have more than enough willing females who will
 

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I tought masturbation and porn led to other problems like erection deficit or premature ejaculation.

So being unable to cvm can be due to that?
 

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I tought masturbation and porn led to other problems like erection deficit or premature ejaculation.

So being unable to cvm can be due to that?
Desensitized to the real thing from jagging it too much and maybe the visuals of porn are more stimulating what he gets in real life, it's not always true.

Nevertheless it's still better for you to let a babe handle your ****, and if you don't have a babe get one or a couple.
 

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Desensitized to the real thing from jagging it too much and maybe the visuals of porn are more stimulating what he gets in real life, it's not always true.

Nevertheless it's still better for you to let a babe handle your ****, and if you don't have a babe get one or a couple.
I dont know mate, I watch porno often before going to the gym and when I come back sometime I cant even resist to shower that I have to spank the moneky yet never had such problems, actually its the opposite I have to deploy mastermind techniques to last at least few min while with a girl.

Thats why it surprised me that Op had such problems.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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All was well today. Today I finally came from a BJ. I said "pineapple" when I nutted. she never swallowed before but she took it like a champ.. I made it rain.
 

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It could have been that the head wasn't that good. I have only had one girl that could make me nut off a BJ. With the other girls, I had to close my eyes and picture a hot girl riding me just to nut. When it comes to sex I have never had any problems nutting.
it was her first time so probably lol
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Dude, how is lasting "too long" a problem? Most chicks are used to 5 minutes or less...embrace being able to rock a chick's world like that. Get in better shape so you don't get tired out and just punish that pvssy until she begs you to stop cause its sore.
 

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Dude, how is lasting "too long" a problem? Most chicks are used to 5 minutes or less...embrace being able to rock a chick's world like that. Get in better shape so you don't get tired out and just punish that pvssy until she begs you to stop cause its sore.
its a problem bc she was on her period and we couldnt bang so the head lasted forever and her jaw started to hurt really bad. i dont wanna last that long if were not banging, it was frustrating...
 

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When I was younger I had a gf who used to "drain" me in 2-3 minutes max :D At first she was shy but then got the right technique and it was wonderful + she liked doing it ;)

My last gf wasn't so good in bj's nor in bed. I needed to think about other girls to be able to "shoot" and was feeling bad after that but that was the good old AFC days(was even thinking she was the one :D eh...)

So don't be quick with the conclusions. Every girl is different and some learn quickly and want it, some don't want to learn at all and just do it if you insist.
 

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If your having sex regularly why do you need porn?

Anyway, you could use it to your advantage maybe? Last longer in bed and give her multiple orgasms.

I have a problem with my d**k as well, its really little.
 

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If your having sex regularly why do you need porn?

Anyway, you could use it to your advantage maybe? Last longer in bed and give her multiple orgasms.

I have a problem with my d**k as well, its really little.
well, i only had 'vaginal' sex one time so far.... im not getting it consistently yet. porn is just a temptation that i succumb to from time to time, it's not an addiction. i don't think its a big deal. at the time though, i just could not come whatsoever. an orgasm was impossible. i was high on weed and the next day i wasnt. the 2nd time i was finally able to bust. i attribute the sexual dysfunction to the weed. one time i could not stay hard with this other girl after we had smoked. i think its the weed.

anyways, i blame it on the weed.

as for you Eternal_water, how little? is it really such a bad thing? what is your experience?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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