"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Got a problem escalating with Asian women, suggestions?

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I've gone out with a couple of Chinese girls. I met one while working and the other one in class. My approach anxiety has gone down to about 20%. I don't have a problem escalating, making them smile, punch back, and even touch me. However, when I warm them up and then go in for this kiss I get a flat no; I tried to go for the cheek and got another flat no. I say to myself "alright, I'll try later in the night" only to experience the same.

This is the second time this happens to me. I went out with a Chinese hb8.5 last night and I was getting a lot of IOI's (touching my chest, laughing, telling me I'm cute, even grabbed my tail) but I'm stuck at the kiss. Anyone been here before? I asked her straight up if it was a cultural thing and she said they aren't allowed to date people in high school, to which I responded "well...we are in college :rolleyes:." She smiled, but still nothing. She didn't even KNOW when the kiss happens. "It just doesn't feel right" she said. Someone got a ladder to get out of this whole? Not to brag, but I would have definitely gotten at least the kiss with an American girl for sure; I just really like how loyal and traditional Asian women are(not to mention she's a hottie).
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Take things a step slower instead of trying to bulldoze through on the escalation. Use the element of se xual tension to escalate in the future, for now just increase the tension till they make it clear they wanna get plowed.
 
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If they're like the Asian girls I know, they'll tend to be wary of PDA.

Where was this date? If you can, isolate them. Make them as comfortable as possible. If they want to, they'll kiss you.
 
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Exactly what they've said. Take it a step slower. Work on escalating the kino first, then isolate. PDA is a problem if they're Asian by nationality and not just skin colour. It's worth it mind, I've had a couple rubbish ones, but a majority have been wide lays. Just look out for the starfishes...
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Lack of comfort, dear sir. You have to step this up and turn the heat dial on slowly. I am in the same boat.
 
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