Got a problem escalating with Asian women, suggestions?

[Masculinity]

I've gone out with a couple of Chinese girls. I met one while working and the other one in class. My approach anxiety has gone down to about 20%. I don't have a problem escalating, making them smile, punch back, and even touch me. However, when I warm them up and then go in for this kiss I get a flat no; I tried to go for the cheek and got another flat no. I say to myself "alright, I'll try later in the night" only to experience the same.

This is the second time this happens to me. I went out with a Chinese hb8.5 last night and I was getting a lot of IOI's (touching my chest, laughing, telling me I'm cute, even grabbed my tail) but I'm stuck at the kiss. Anyone been here before? I asked her straight up if it was a cultural thing and she said they aren't allowed to date people in high school, to which I responded "well...we are in college ." She smiled, but still nothing. She didn't even KNOW when the kiss happens. "It just doesn't feel right" she said. Someone got a ladder to get out of this whole? Not to brag, but I would have definitely gotten at least the kiss with an American girl for sure; I just really like how loyal and traditional Asian women are(not to mention she's a hottie).

 

[3countriesPlan]

Take things a step slower instead of trying to bulldoze through on the escalation. Use the element of se xual tension to escalate in the future, for now just increase the tension till they make it clear they wanna get plowed.

 

[Leporello]

If they're like the Asian girls I know, they'll tend to be wary of PDA.

Where was this date? If you can, isolate them. Make them as comfortable as possible. If they want to, they'll kiss you.

 

[SharinganUser]

I was going to write something insightful but Leporello and 3countriesPlan pretty much nailed it.

 

[Hollow.man]

Exactly what they've said. Take it a step slower. Work on escalating the kino first, then isolate. PDA is a problem if they're Asian by nationality and not just skin colour. It's worth it mind, I've had a couple rubbish ones, but a majority have been wide lays. Just look out for the starfishes...

 

[PapiChulo]

Lack of comfort, dear sir. You have to step this up and turn the heat dial on slowly. I am in the same boat.