midwestguy
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I mean if she has someone come and pay me a visit should I fight him then?
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Got a phone call tonight.
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Royal Elite
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If you dont have a choice of course, but if you can call the cops, and dont open the door.
midwestguy
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True call the police. What happens if he had a bat or knife? Then you can use force. This is kinda freaking me out.
Royal Elite
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Its freaking you out because you are focusing on something that is not even true. There is no bat, there is no knife, there is no this girl liking you.
The only truth is you are typing at a keyboard thinking about her and him, and they are somewhere living their lives not thinking aobut you. Start thinking postive, and having positive images, and go to see a movie later, or too a bar, or go hang out with some friends.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
midwestguy
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Also she comes down for easter I bet, and she will be back down for the summer. What happens if I run itno her cause she doesnt work too far from me at and and live too far. Should I just ignore her if I see her and just give her a dirty look?
midwestguy
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I dont know. It would take all my power not to call her a b*tch in her face.
frivolousz21
Master Don Juan
it wont happen!
move on man!
let it go
ive had this **** happen to me twice.
just a ***** with some punk ass fag friends who she has whipped too.
****ing hoe..she aint even all that..id like to *** in her eye.
ok my bad! ill relax
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
midwestguy
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What would she do then? Would she smack me you think?
midwestguy
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Him threatning me over state lines is a fed offense.
As regards offline stalking: in 1996 the US Federal Government passed The Interstate Stalking Punishment and Prevention Act of 1996 [ USC 18: 2261A ]. This made it a Federal crime to cross a State line with the intent to injure or harass another person. This law does little to help the Internet community of course as cyberstalking does not require the physical crossing of State lines. On the Internet this law can be found at nvc.org
USC 18: 41 - Extortion and Threats § 875 (c), is a little more useful in the case of threats made on the Internet, since it refers to "interstate communications". It states:
§ 875. Interstate communications
(c) Whoever transmits in interstate or foreign commerce any communication containing any threat to kidnap any person or any threat to injure the person of another, shall be fined under this title or imprisoned not more than five years, or both.
As regards offline stalking: in 1996 the US Federal Government passed The Interstate Stalking Punishment and Prevention Act of 1996 [ USC 18: 2261A ]. This made it a Federal crime to cross a State line with the intent to injure or harass another person. This law does little to help the Internet community of course as cyberstalking does not require the physical crossing of State lines. On the Internet this law can be found at nvc.org
USC 18: 41 - Extortion and Threats § 875 (c), is a little more useful in the case of threats made on the Internet, since it refers to "interstate communications". It states:
§ 875. Interstate communications
(c) Whoever transmits in interstate or foreign commerce any communication containing any threat to kidnap any person or any threat to injure the person of another, shall be fined under this title or imprisoned not more than five years, or both.
Desdinova
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No, she'd probably just get all pissy. If she thinks you dislike her, she's got no reasons to send her guy buddies after you. Sounds kinda screwy doesn't it? Guys would want revenge in this situation, but a woman would only want her emotions to calm down.
As far as contacting the authorities over this issue, you definately have a good cause to. However, I highly doubt he's going to continue harassing you. He's only doing it because of some chick. If you abandon the entire situation with this chick, the harassment would most likely stop. Pressing charges will cause him to have a personal issue with you.
If you're continually recieving harassment from this guy, then contact the authorities.
midwestguy
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Then what would happen if she told them I was bugging her and threw it back? Also in the law I posted its a fed crime coming over state lines. Would the local cops say to go to the FBi then?
FBI!?! im sorry homie... U seem like a nice guy BUT you kinda slow there...
ARE U READIN ANYTHING THATS BEING POSTEd?!
U keep askin the same ****ing questions...
No guys with bats and knifes are gonna do anything...
FORGET ABOUT THIS DUMB UGLY ASS *****...
Find new chicks, live ur life... stop worrying about this...
Enough said...
ARE U READIN ANYTHING THATS BEING POSTEd?!
U keep askin the same ****ing questions...
No guys with bats and knifes are gonna do anything...
FORGET ABOUT THIS DUMB UGLY ASS *****...
Find new chicks, live ur life... stop worrying about this...
Enough said...
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Desdinova
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It really sounds like you're thinking too far into the future regarding this situation. Deal with the issues as they come. We've already given you advice on how to deal with the current situation. If things continue to happen, then give us an update.
You're getting way too wound up about this whole situation. You got a stupid phone call from this chick's guy friend. Ditch the chick and the bull5hit will most likely end.
midwestguy
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I called her and left that ***** a voicemail saying I didnt appreciate it her having a guy calling me and threatning me. I told her it was rude of her.
midwestguy
Banned
Should I expect her to call back you think?
midwestguy
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IF he does I'll stand up to him again.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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