"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Got a number...(noob question)

El Don

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So I was at this party and got this girl's number. I was a little bit tipsy so I wasnt able to really concentrate much on trying my don juan skills out. I somehow talked to her and just went ahead and just asked if she had a man and she said no. I then told her that I wanted to take her out sometime and wanted to know if she was down. She said it was ok and I told her I would hit her up sometime. My question is though is it possible that some girls give their numbers out even though they may not be into the guy? She didnt seem to be very very interested (of course I was tipsy) so I didnt know if girls still give out their numbers even though they may not be interested in the guy. I gave her the option of not giving it to me to, because I asked her "let me take you out sometime, or are you good?" she said it was ok but I still think maybe she just couldnt say no. What do you all think, could she have given to me even though she wasnt interested or do you believe she was into me? thanks for the replys, I am pretty new to all this stuff and you guys give some great advice on this site.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Originally posted by El Don
"let me take you out sometime, or are you good?"
1st. Are you sure it's her real number?

2nd. Would you say no to a free lunch?

and by 'tipsy', I hope you did not frighten her into giving it to you.

And yes, sometimes, girls DO give out numbers JUST to get the guy off their backs.

It was good how you were direct in stating your interest.

I'd call her in a few days to find out.

Good luck.
 

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I didnt frighten her or anythin but I was a little tipsy and I know there was some things I shouldnt have said in regards to the don juan style and things not to say. I was just straight up with her and told her but I know that usually ends up not being too good when you tell her how you feel. I'll prob just give her a call later and see what happens, if not oh well.
 

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allow me to help...about 2 weeks ago i was drunk and i was at a party and i was talking to one of my friends and all of a sudden i started saying Fvck you to everyone i saw like pointing at them and saying it...this girl walks over and she's got a bangin body but her face was blurry and i was drunk of course!! I ended up getting her number and getting her to stuff her beer down her shirt...Okay my story didn't help but what i mean is We as men tend to do everything to a women to talking watching and analyzing the girl...The only thing we can't do witch would make it oh so much easier is read a females thoughts BUT WE CAN'T!!!

call her set up a date and do your thing then you will really find out if she likes you or not...I had to learn to just don't give a sh!t and go for the girl..it worked for me it'll work for you good luck
 
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