"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Got a number...(noob question)

El Don

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So I was at this party and got this girl's number. I was a little bit tipsy so I wasnt able to really concentrate much on trying my don juan skills out. I somehow talked to her and just went ahead and just asked if she had a man and she said no. I then told her that I wanted to take her out sometime and wanted to know if she was down. She said it was ok and I told her I would hit her up sometime. My question is though is it possible that some girls give their numbers out even though they may not be into the guy? She didnt seem to be very very interested (of course I was tipsy) so I didnt know if girls still give out their numbers even though they may not be interested in the guy. I gave her the option of not giving it to me to, because I asked her "let me take you out sometime, or are you good?" she said it was ok but I still think maybe she just couldnt say no. What do you all think, could she have given to me even though she wasnt interested or do you believe she was into me? thanks for the replys, I am pretty new to all this stuff and you guys give some great advice on this site.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Originally posted by El Don
"let me take you out sometime, or are you good?"
1st. Are you sure it's her real number?

2nd. Would you say no to a free lunch?

and by 'tipsy', I hope you did not frighten her into giving it to you.

And yes, sometimes, girls DO give out numbers JUST to get the guy off their backs.

It was good how you were direct in stating your interest.

I'd call her in a few days to find out.

Good luck.
 

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I didnt frighten her or anythin but I was a little tipsy and I know there was some things I shouldnt have said in regards to the don juan style and things not to say. I was just straight up with her and told her but I know that usually ends up not being too good when you tell her how you feel. I'll prob just give her a call later and see what happens, if not oh well.
 

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allow me to help...about 2 weeks ago i was drunk and i was at a party and i was talking to one of my friends and all of a sudden i started saying Fvck you to everyone i saw like pointing at them and saying it...this girl walks over and she's got a bangin body but her face was blurry and i was drunk of course!! I ended up getting her number and getting her to stuff her beer down her shirt...Okay my story didn't help but what i mean is We as men tend to do everything to a women to talking watching and analyzing the girl...The only thing we can't do witch would make it oh so much easier is read a females thoughts BUT WE CAN'T!!!

call her set up a date and do your thing then you will really find out if she likes you or not...I had to learn to just don't give a sh!t and go for the girl..it worked for me it'll work for you good luck
 
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